Expert Explains Why 'Micro Cheating' May Not Be A Big Deal In Relationships

Many people would probably agree that cheating is quite negative and represents the ultimate form of betrayal in a relationship.

However, an expert has recently shed light on a type of cheating called 'micro cheating', suggesting it's not as serious when you're in a committed relationship.

It's common for many to view a bachelor or bachelorette party as the final evening of 'freedom.'

This is seen as the last chance before diving into the commitments of married life, which brings both happiness and challenges.

Research conducted in the UK has uncovered that a significant number of Brits engage in 'micro-cheating' during their stag and hen parties.

While this might seem harsh to the unsuspecting partner, some experts are now indicating that this kind of cheating might not be as harmful as it appears.

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A study from illicitencounters.com revealed that 84 percent of Brits admitted to some form of 'micro cheating' while celebrating their upcoming nuptials.

So, what does 'micro-cheating' actually entail?

The term is defined as: "Someone who engages in subtle actions that demonstrate [an] interest in someone outside of their own relationship."

Such behaviors might include flirting or buying a drink for someone else.

Jessica Leoni, a sex and relationships expert, notes that these actions are often more likely to happen abroad.

As the common saying goes, combining sun, sea, and alcohol can sometimes lead to trouble.

"Being far from home and away from familiar eyes can make individuals feel bolder, which can also make them seem more attractive to others," she pointed out.

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If this 'micro cheating' doesn't escalate into full-on cheating, the expert doesn't see it as a major issue.

Jessica further explained: "Stags and hens - or all group trips - are an escape from the stresses of normal life back home, 

"And so long as things don't progress to physical intimacy this sort of behaviour really shouldn't bother their partners back home." 

The research also showed that nearly half of the participants eventually confessed their vacation misdeeds to their partners.

"Micro-cheating is something to be aware of, but some harmless flirting abroad on the stag or hen really shouldn't spoil the wedding," Jessica added. 

She elaborated: "Being abroad and out of the daily grind also means people feel freer and that can fuel cheating. 

"Magaluf has been famed for its boozed-fuelled breaks for decades, and its popularity with stag and hen dos is another reason it is still considered a mecca for cheating."