Woman Will Only Have A Baby If Her Partner Pays Her $315K A Year: ‘I’m Not Built To Suffer’

By Haider Ali in Parenting On 11th December 2023
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According to a London-based influencer, 23, she won't "sacrifice" her body for a child until she receives $315,000 a year for personal training, therapy, and baby necessities in addition to a push present and a mother makeover.

“Creating a human life takes a lot of sacrifice,” Jenny Darling told SWNS. “I’d never put my body through that for free. I’m not built to suffer.”

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Although the content producer says she has never wanted children and even asked doctors to remove her uterus, she would think about having a child if the appropriate man could match her requirements.

According to Darling, she would have to get married before getting pregnant, have a prenuptial agreement with an infidelity clause, and take an international babymoon.

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Jenny Darling / SWNS

“Kids are expensive. I wouldn’t want to bring a child into this world to suffer,” she explained. “I would have kids on the terms it’s a good motherhood experience for me.”

In addition to the $315,000 yearly budget, Darling's “non-negotiables” include hiring a maid and a doula for the first six months following the birth of her child.

After that, there would be a weekly cleaner in place of the housekeeper.

“I don’t know how women do cooking, cleaning, and working as a mom. I commend that, but it’s not going to be me,” she declared.

Jenny Darling / SWNS

In addition, she requests a mommy makeover, which includes a boob job and tummy tuck, as well as a luxury push present, like an apartment or a car.

For the first few years of motherhood, at least, she does not intend to work a full-time job.

Although Darling does not plan to have children, she stated she might think about it if certain requirements were satisfied.

“I don’t think it’s much to ask for,” she said.

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Jenny Darling / SWNS

Darling's manifesto on motherhood emerges in the wake of a divisive viral video advocating the advantages of the DINK (Dual Income, No Kids) lifestyle for couples with two incomes and no children.

In a recent video, 28-year-old personal finance content creator John Eringman proudly shared, "We're DINKs, indulging in exclusive hobbies like skiing and golfing. We're DINKs, already mapping out our European vacation for next year."

The ensuing discussion on parenting prompted Elon Musk, father of 11, to declare, "That's problematic."

Jenny Darling's views on motherhood have stirred discussions on personal choices and financial expectations.

@_lifeofjenny_ My non negotiables for Preganacy , creating a human life takes a lot of sacrifice as a woman and im not putting myself through all that for free sorry not sorry #relationship #datingadvice #single #pregnancy #pregnancylist #greenscreen ♬ original sound - LifeofJenny| Content Creator

Her demand for compensation challenges traditional notions of family planning, emphasizing the need for a balance between personal well-being and societal expectations.

While currently not planning to have children, Darling's openness to reconsideration underscores the fluidity of individual perspectives. 

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The contrasting viewpoints of influencers like Darling and John Eringman, coupled with Elon Musk's unexpected input, showcase the diverse landscape of opinions on parenthood.

In essence, the ongoing conversation reflects the evolving dynamics and diverse considerations that shape discussions around family planning in today's society.