Whatever you choose to do behind your closed doors is your business. Nobody should judge you if your bedroom antics are different from the norm. If you like to indulge in certain sex acts with your partner, there is one thing that you and your partner must share with each other, your safe word. Because every couple is different, there are tons of words being used as safe words. Some seem standard safe words while others lean towards the more bizarre. Love Honey surveyed 3,000 customers from the UK, US, and Australia to find what the most popular safe words are being used. Here is the list...
Here Is A List Of The Top 15 Most Used "Safe Words"
Red
We have been programmed since we were children that red means stop. It totally makes sense that this word would be used as a safe word.
Pineapple
I could not imagine a more difficult word to say when you are in the heat of the moment. This safe word likely became popular after Kevin Hart announced that he uses it in one of his stand-up comedy shows.
Banana
This piece of fruit has been a phallic symbol for ages due to its erotic shape. Using that word as a safe word, however, does seem a bit strange.
Blue
We are not sure if this is a reference to the word itself or the color of your skin when you’ve been hanging upside down in some extravagant sex equipment for too long. It is unclear as to how this word came to be a safe word.
Unicorn
Unicorns have become very popular with millennials. They eat unicorn toast, wear unicorn pajamas, and even paint their faces to look like unicorns. It is no surprise that this mythical creature has become part of some people's sex lives.
Dobby
Yeah, you read that right. Dobby the House Elf’s name is rather disrespectfully being shouted in bedrooms around the world. Do they not know he died? Some people have no respect.
Donald Trump
We are not sure if this safe word made the list as some part of a joke. One thing we can guarantee is saying this man's name during sex would definitely be a mood killer, so it really is the best safe word.
Betty Boop
The people who need safe words while having sex are a strange bunch. Why would Betty Boop be something to make you stop? This is such a strange safe word as she was a cartoon sex symbol. It seems like more of a turn of than a turn-off.
Hufflepuff
Harry Potter seems to be a common theme in some bedrooms. I guess calling out "Hufflepuff" is better than saying "Snape", "Professor Sprout", or "Whomping Willow".
Tinkerbell
While this little fairy is best friends with the Lost Boys, it seems she is also a friend to some of the friskiest couples in the world.
Filibuster
For those who do not know, a filibuster is a political procedure. We won't bore you with further details, but that little piece of knowledge should give you an idea why someone would use it as a safe word.
Trabeculectomy
A trabeculectomy is a surgical procedure on a person's eye, which makes it possibly the grossest word you could possibly use while in the throws of passion.
Michael Jackson
We do not know what is worse, using a person who is alive's name or someone who's dead's name as your safe word. One thing we could almost guarantee is that Michael Jackson would probably prefer that you just Beat It instead.
Vanilla
We find it ironic that people would use the word "vanilla" while being anything but in the bedroom.
Justin Bieber
Was someone trying to be funny when adding this to the list? Either way, saying "Justin Bieber" in the bedroom is a real mood killer, so it probably would make this one of the most effective safe words.
It is not likely that we will know why some of these couples chose to use these words, but it great to know they are actively being used. After all, you gotta keep things consensual.
