Losing Teenage Daughter In An Accident, Grieving Mom Finds Solace In Letters Daughter Wrote Her On Her Previous Birthday
On 18th September 2018
Cindy felt like she lost her world when she heard the news of her daughter's car accident. The tragedy claimed not only 16-year old Macy's life but also her boyfriend Sattler's life. Dealing with the trauma, Cindy was stuck in her grieving process and had no idea how to move on after her daughter's sudden death. What she needed was closure but she had no idea how to find it with her daughter Macy no more beside her. This is when Cindy found the set of letters that her daughter gave her as a gift on her previous birthday. Reading the letters, Cindy couldn't help but imagine that her daughter as if almost knew that she would be needing these letters in the future.
#1 Losing Loved One In A Tragic Accident
The only fear that we all can consider as our mutual is the fear of losing our loved ones. We all can relate to it because we all go through this fear almost daily. It was especially tough for Cindy, why you ask? Cindy lost her dearest teenage daughter, 16-year old Macy in an unfortunate car accident.
#2 The News Left Cindy Traumatized, She Didn't Know If She Could Continue With Her Life
Sudden deaths are the worst, especially for a parent who lose their child in a tragedy. For Cindy, it was heartbreaking to the point where she doubted that if she will be able to carry on with her life without her baby girl by her side. Continuing her life like a corpse, Macy was broken beyond repair after she heard the news of a car accident that killed not only her daughter but Macy's boyfriend Sattler too.
#3 Macy Left A Set Of Letters For Her Mother Like She Almost Knew That Her Mother Would Be Needing The Letters In Future
Just when Cindy thought she couldn't carry on any longer, she found something in her room that served as a consolation for her. For her previous birthday, Cindy received a set of 25 letters from her daughter, each titled differently. Like if she was missing her, there was a letter with a title, 'If you miss me.' Other letters included were 'When You Need To Smile,' or 'When You Need To Know How Much I Love You,' or 'When You Can’t Sleep.' It was almost like, Macy knew that her mother would be needing those letters in future after she would be gone.
#4 It Was Almost Like Cindy Found A Piece Of Her Daughter Again
Getting those letters were like a blessing in disguise. For Cindy, it was almost like she found a piece of her daughter and got her back again after losing her. One such letter 'Open when you miss me' gave Cindy solace and she could almost feel Macy's presence beside like her. The letter read, "Open when… you miss me. I’m sorry that you’re missing me. I hope that wherever you are or whatever you’re doing you’re okay. I’m probably missing you too."
#5 These Letters Are What Keep Macy Alive For Cindy
Getting strength from her deceased daughter's letters, Cindy finally got enough strength to open up about her daughter's death. Talking to a media outlet, Cindy says, They’re so on point, and there are occasions where she knew me way too well. My daughter knew me. Most of them are definitely uplifting."
#6 The Letters Helped Cindy To Move On And Finally Accept The Heartbreaking Truth
Cindy in her interview confesses that she almost forgot about the letters until she rediscovered one of them in the car trunk. In one letter, titled 'When you can't sleep' the emotional letter read, "I want you to know that I love you. I feel like I don’t tell you that enough. And since you can’t sleep and you’re probably stressed about something, I need you to know that I love you."