#1 Supernatural believings
Are you the kind of person who does not believe in supernatural things? Well, here is the guy who has a ghost girlfriend and is worried that his girl might be cheating on him during the lockdown.
#2 Believing in the paranormal world is alright, but how far this belief should go?
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#4 Meet Gary DeNoia.
Gary is a 35-year old man from New Jersey who says that he is in a relationship with a ghost named Lisa.
#5 In a relationship with a ghost
Gary has been seeing his paranormal spirit girlfriend for the past 2 years.
#6 Revealing details about his life with Lisa
This man genuinely believes he has a girlfriend and has even revealed some intimate details about his personal life with Lisa too. After previously telling us that he has not taken her to meet his parents as of yet, we thought that Gary might be feeling a little hesitant about their relationship.
#7 Lisa wants to meet his parents
Gary said, “I’ll visit my parents over the holidays, but Lisa will stay at home. I’m not ready to introduce her to my parents yet. She understands, but it certainly has put a strain on our relationship. She wants to meet my parents…”
#8 He first wants to be comfortabe enough to take that step
He added, “I just have a feeling they won’t respond well to it if I do. Hopefully, in the new year I’ll be able to feel comfortable enough to take that step. I am starting to introduce her to more and more of my friends, which has had mixed results.”
#9 Gary wants people to take him seriously
“Most people are initially confused, or they think I am joking. But once they see how happy she makes me they’re totally cool with it.”
#10 Revealing details about their private life and explaining his experiences to be "amazing" with her
“Our [private] life is ever-evolving. It gets better and better. There’s always new sensations. Different vibrations, which I guess is the best way to describe it.
#11 Giving insight into his sex life with his ghost girlfriend
“It’s like your whole body is having s*x. And since Lisa is a spirit, she is more flexible which allows us to experiment with all sorts of new positions.”
#12 Making future plans together
After Christmas, they even made plans for their valentines. Gary told Daily Star Online, They plan on starting the night off with a nice Netflix and chill before opening up their relationship to another person.
#13 Adding onto the details
“We both think that going out on Valentine’s Day is overpriced and overrated. We have a tradition. The night we make popcorn and ice cream sundaes.”
#14 A romantic date it is
“Then we watch our favorite movie, which ironically is Ghost. I know… we’re so corny. We can’t help it. Afterward, we make love on a bed of roses. The roses stay on the bed when we go to sleep, so we wake up to the smell of flowers.”
#15 About time when things start to get a bit weird
“Lisa has recently befriended a female spirit and I thought it would be fun to bring her over and spice things up.”
“I’ve never had one before. Not even with two living women. I’m a little nervous, so needless to say there will be a lot of wine involved to loosen me up.”
#16 "hitting a new milestone"
“And it was Lisa’s idea for the threesome. She’s confident in the way I feel about her … we would be comfortable having [intercourse] with another spirit without any emotional attachment.”
#17 Still together
After going through so much, Gary and Lisa are still together but ever since the lockdown, they are hitting few bumps in their relationship.
Speaking to the Daily Star about the last few months, he said, “At first, we spent every day together for a month. Jersey City was an epicenter early on during this, especially where we live. And I’m by nature a very anxious person. On top of not being able to see my family or nieces, I was feeling very afraid."
“She’d help me cook and fold laundry. Watch loads of TV. And obviously have s*x. All the time. It was fun, but exhausting,” he explained.
“I’m not in great shape, so it was hard to keep up. Being on strict lockdown we had to find creative ways to be [intimately] adventurous.”
#18 He is worried that Lisa might be cheating on him
But it seems like that this is not enough for Gary's ghost girlfriend. “This past month she’s out all the time. Never tells me where she’s going. Just says she’s going ‘out with friends.’ She could be anywhere with anyone. And I’ve always felt secure in our relationship, but lately, we haven’t been having much [intimacy].”
“I mean I’m not crazy, am I? It just doesn’t make any sense. I can understand wanting space, but something just feels off.”