These 'homewreckers' spill the beans on why and how they broke up marriages.
Mistresses Reveal How They Broke Up Marriages
At least they're self-aware?
"I'm a homewrecker. I do it because I don't want anyone to have a happy marriage if I coudn't."
The karma clock is ticking
"In the process of being a homewrecker.. I am going to get some bad karma for this one."
Some get an 'empowering' feeling
"I'm a mistress...I love feeling that power over him and knowing he prefers me to what he's got at home."
Some speak from a place of cruelty.
"I seduced my coworker and it broke up his 8yr marriage. I know I should feel guilty about being a homewrecker but I actually feel great!"
Not taking accountability helps wrestle a conscience.
"I'm the mistress. She doesn't deserve it, but I tell myself if it wasn't me it would be someone else."
Therapy. Lots of therapy helps find that self-love
"I say I'm ok being the "other woman"...I'm actually not, I'm just so desperate to be loved I'll settle for being someone else's affair."
The love keeps pulling them back
"I'm the other woman. I have a huge guilty conscience but I love the attention he gives me."
A dash of victim-blaming from this one.
"People say I'm a homewrecker because I sleep with married men when in reality I'm not the wife not satisfying her man. She's ruining their relationship, not me."
Your values are often at odds with one another.
"I like to consider myself a feminist but I'm the other woman in someone's relationship.
It goes against everythig I beleive but I cant stop seeing him."
Cheating is cheating is cheating.
"I'm a homewrecker. His marriage was over long before he met me I just gave him the incentive to leave...I'm not ashamed."
A guilty conscience weighs heavy
"I ruined a marriage and I know I will never forgive myself for that. I couldn't imagine if I had switched places and had an unfaithful husband."
Some never understand their faults.
"I found the love of my life by being a homewrecker. I wouldn't change a thing."
Not like, you actually did.
"My boyfriend told his wife he wants a divorce. I should be happy but I feel bad, like I destroyed their marriage."
This one is just diabolical.
"I purposefully left my hair tie in her bathroom when he invited me over for sex. I ruined her marriage, but she needed to know."
Penance doesn't work like that.
"I'm a homewrecker. I know this bad karma is the reason I will be alone for the rest of my life."
Noone understands and they shouldn't have to.
"I'm in love with a married man. I know it isn't right but I can't help it. My friends and family can't understand and I don't blame them."
Wives? Plural?
"I'm a homewrecker but no one knows. I sometimes want to tell the wives but I never have."
This one falls only on the lying, cheating man.
"I destroyed a marriage unknowingly and it's not something I'm proud of. I will never be forgiven"
He loves you until he falls in love with the next one.
"I don't feel bad about destroying my boyfriend's marriage. he isn't happy with her. He loves me!"
This one needs therapy.
"I love being a homewrecker. The idea of his wife finding out turns me on more than anything."