Sugar Baby Earning Thousands Each Month Reveals The Rules Men Must Follow To See Her

A British woman who now makes a comfortable living through her sugar baby lifestyle has shared the strict boundaries her male clients must follow if they want to keep seeing her.

Connie Keast began working as a sugar baby four years ago and says the experience has been 'great' overall. She explains that it gives her complete control over her time and income, describing herself as 'basically self-employed' — choosing who she works with, when she meets them, and how much she charges.

The 36-year-old lives aboard a narrowboat in Bristol, UK, and runs an online blog where she writes openly about her work in the sex industry. She often shares stories about luxury holidays, fine dining, and the expensive gifts she receives from her clients.

"I eat a lot and drink a lot. I am always been taken out for something to eat or something to drink - so not so good for the waist line," Connie joked during an interview.

Through her work, Connie is intimate with some of her clients — even those she admits she doesn’t always find attractive. Her clientele includes men ranging in age from their early forties to their late seventies.

"I've met people that I wouldn't meet otherwise - people with lots of money," she added, explaining that her arrangements often give her access to experiences and people she wouldn’t have otherwise. "I've not had the money when I've been in a relationships to do those things. So it's just nice to to well treated."

Connie Keast lives on a narrowboat in England SWNS

Of course, Connie charges well for her time and companionship, earning about $4,000 each month. She’s also careful to maintain strict personal rules that protect her boundaries and her livelihood.

According to Connie, one of the most important rules in her line of work is not falling in love with her clients — something she avoids by being selective about who she takes on.

"Most of them are older than me anyway," she explained. "When you're involved with somebody in their 60s or 70s, I'm in my mid-30s, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with them anyway."

"I know it's never going to happen. I know it's not an option."

Connie also shared that several of her regulars are married, though she makes it clear that she doesn’t sleep with people her own age who are married or have families.

She explained her reasoning by saying: "A man can love his wife and have a very good relationship with his wife, but also have sex with somebody else. I don't have sex with people that are my age that are married."

Connie has rules around her clients to stay professional SWNS

"It could be quite damaging. But I think lots of older men in their 60s and 70s, they still have that desire, that need, which is not being fulfilled at home.''"

While Connie isn’t looking for romance in her current line of work, she hasn’t ruled it out for the future. She hopes to one day meet someone special and have a committed relationship outside her job.

For now, though, she’s content with the independence her career provides and has even put together a six-step checklist to help others decide if the sugar baby lifestyle could suit them. Here’s what she suggests:

1) Do you genuinely enjoy meeting new people from different walks of life and learning about them?

2) Can you be physically intimate with someone you don’t necessarily find attractive — and make it seem like you’re enjoying it?

3) Are you confident enough to undress in front of someone you’ve just met and be comfortable being seen in full light? (Many clients prefer it that way.)

4) Are you emotionally detached enough to keep things casual? (If you’ve ever had a one-night stand and forgotten their name by morning, you might already qualify.)

5) Can you set boundaries and say no when needed? Or, if you struggle to say no, are you fully aware of what that could mean for you?

6) And finally — do you really like money?

If your answer is no to most of those questions, Connie says the sugar baby lifestyle probably isn’t the right fit.

It’s not for everyone — but for her, it’s a career that works perfectly for now.