Therapists Say These Things Can Silently Kill A Marriage

Posted by Sughra Hafeez in Life Style On 31st January 2018
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Though these three things have proven to be the death of many marriages, the good news is that you can avoid them.

Porn.

There probably isn’t a more efficient way to make your wife feel betrayed, used, and violated than picking up a porn habit. Many married guys insist there’s nothing wrong with it

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Protect your own heart.

Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.

Always Have the Last Word

What you do while she is talking is formulate what you want to say next. You let her wax on while you’re figuring out how to trump her droning. If she likes to talk a lot a lot and if you’re a little slow on the uptake, you will have more time to come back at her.

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Constant negativity

Negativity is draining. Men like to fix things, and constantly being hounded with complaints makes it difficult for him to help solve your pains.

If there is one thing I've learned from marriage it's that a good man wants you to be happy, and if he can't help you do that, it makes him unhappy. It's okay to have a bad day once in a while — that's totally understandable, but don't make it a way of life.

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