Traditional Wife Allows Husband To Sleep With Other Women While She Cooks And Cleans For Him

Monica, a stay-at-home wife, shares that her dedication to her husband's happiness is so deep that she allows him to have relationships with other women outside their marriage.

She also cooks every meal, keeps their home spotless, and ensures she always looks her best for him, embracing a 'traditional housewife' role.

This role surprisingly includes permitting her husband of six years to explore relationships with multiple women.

While her husband engages in these extramarital activities and handles other 'manly' tasks, Monica dedicates roughly 98 percent of her day to activities centered around him.

John also picks out Monica’s clothes — something she says she enjoys. Instagram / @swedish_bella_backup

She explained in an interview with the YouTube channel Love Don't Judge:

"I've always had a submissive side since I can remember and have always been drawn to assertive and dominant males."

She further stated: "I enjoy being a traditional housewife because that's my love language. I love making the people I care about feel good. 

"It's not that I'm a hopeless little girl; it's just that he's assertive, and I like that in a man."

Monica ensures she is always presentable under her husband's watchful eye before she begins her extensive list of 'traditional housewife' duties.

She spends most of her day cooking and cleaning for her husband. Instagram / @swedish_bella_backup

She recounts advice from her mother, saying:

"My mum told me, ‘be pretty and in good shape because nobody wants a fat and ugly wife'," revealing the pressures she faces to maintain her appearance.

Not everyone is supportive of Monica and John's unconventional lifestyle.

Monica admits: "I've actually had childhood friends reach out telling me I've lost my dignity as a woman. 

"They also say I shouldn't have children because I would be a horrible mum because of how we live."

Monica claims that she knows her husband loves her, which is why she’s OK with him sleeping with other women. Instagram / @swedish_bella_backup

Furthermore, her friends are not supportive of Monica and John's marital arrangement.

Explaining why she agreed to their setup, Monica shared her perspective: 

"I feel like, as a female, I have a different view on sex than a male does. For a guy, it's just a fun thing." 

She added: "I know in my heart that he loves me because he comes home to me. He takes really good care of me."

John, speaking from his home office decorated with action figures, offered his thoughts: 

“John always says food is my department and he just wants a nice dinner. If he asks me for something specific, he always gets what he wants,” Monica told Jam Press. Instagram / @swedish_bella_backup

"It's a luxury I have that probably most guys wish they had, just because of genetic programming.

"If you look at how other mammals behave, typically the alpha male gets to be with all the females." 

He continued: "I think it just makes for a much more relaxed relationship because there's nothing in my life that I desire that I can't have. 

"And I think that makes me a better husband."

Despite what her friends, family, or anyone else thinks, Monica insists she is content with the relationship she has built with John.

The couple uses Monica’s income to travel to different countries. Instagram / @swedish_bella_backup

She stated: 

"I can see how people who don't know us might think, 'oh that's not healthy', or 'that's bad', but I think if you're a good person and you're with someone you really, really love and you're soulmates, it's a whole different thing." 

She concluded: "I love my marriage and I love him, and I don't think there's anything stopping us from living like this always."

"I believe that just because a woman chooses to be a trad wife, it doesn’t make her weak. In fact, the opposite – it takes strength to defy the norm in today’s society,"

Monica added.