This wedding photographer reveals the few subtle signs she has observed with her experience of 15 years on how some marriages are doomed from the beginning. However, few people have shared their disagreement with her opinion. Go through the post and let us know if you agree with these points or not?
Wedding Photographer Reveals Signs That Shows Whether The Marriage Is Doomed From Day One
This wedding photographer shares from her experience some signs that a wedding may be doomed when it has only just begun.
Taking to TikTok, Shayla says she met another photographer who shared with her signs she observe during a shoot. She added that this photographer had worked in the industry for 10 to 15 years so she thought they really new their stuff.
She said: “One time I was shooting under this wedding photographer, and they told me they can always tell if a couple will last or not, based on three things.
“The first indicator is one of the spouses will take like more than three family photos without the other spouse.”
“This one kinda makes sense to me, just because you might get a few with your mum and dad, but to kick them out of more than three photos just seems a little suspicious,” she explained.
The second sign is the bridesmaids or the groomsmen “will avoid talking about the spouse” because it is a sign “they don’t like them”, she added.
And the final sign – apparently – is if one of the spouses spends “more time with friends or family at the reception” than with their partner.
The video went viral on social media and many people weighed in their opnions based on their personal experiences. Agreeing with her, one person said that their ex husband “didn’t spend time with me at the wedding and his groomsmen didn't even say ‘hi’ to me at all.”
“Yup!” another wrote. “My ex husband wanted to spend time with his brother on our wedding night and not me.”
Not only this, but other wedding photographers also chimed in and shared that they have noticed the same things.
But others disagreed. “It depends,” one said. “My husband didn’t even meet half my family until the wedding day, so there wasn’t that relationship between him and my family.”
Another wrote: “The last one is hard because you’re supposed to also be a good host. I spent my whole wedding running around making sure everyone was having fun.”
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Another said: “I didn’t spend a lot of time with my husband at the reception. We’ve been together for nearly 11 years, married for 3.”
Meanwhile, another person shared one more indicator of a doomed marriage: “I honestly thing a big indicator is a huge expensive wedding,” they said.
“Like they’re trying to put on a show for everyone, don’t care about their marriage.”
Well put in your opinion and let us know what do you think?