We all know the ‘nice guy’, the guy that thinks that women owe him sex and that they only want ‘bad boys’. This ‘nice guy’ finally got checked by a woman who had enough of his unwanted advances before blocking him.
Woman Tells Off ‘Nice Guy’ Who Kept Being A Creep
Dictionary.com defines the ‘nice guy’ as “In popular dating culture, a nice guy is a pejorative term for an insecure man who expects his kindness to be rewarded with sex.”
Unfortunately, there’s a lot of them around on the internet. This woman shared an exchange of texts she received starting at 1 am in the night, filled with strange confessions of love, entitled demands, slut-shaming and accusations that she was playing hard to get.
The best part was that she was having none of it and shut him down completely in the most epic fashion before blocking him.
While his first message seemed kind of normal, even if he was sliding into the DMs, the second one really revealed that he was a potential 'nice guy'.
'Forget me already?' was Red Flag 2.
To this, the woman clarified that she had been asleep when he had messaged at 1 am in the night.
She then proceeds to politely tell him that she was not interested and wished him luck while thanking him.
Without skipping a beat he suggested they go out as friends to which she further clarified that she was not looking to bring any new relationships into her world.
What others may have thought would be the end of the conversation, this 'nice guy' saw as a challenge and reached out again asking if she had changed her mind.
She simply responded 'no'.
To this he said 'Playing hard to get...I like lol' which is a terrible sentence.
After receiving no response, the man who couldn't take a hint if it was a bus in the street, messaged her again saying that he wanted an 'explanation' for why she wasnt interested.
And although she wasn't obligated to give him an explanation, she decided to rain down on him with some cold, hard truths and tell him exactly what he needed to hear even if he didn't want to hear it.
She started by calling him out for texting her at 1 am in the morning without even really knowing her first.
She repeated that she had already said 'no; 4 times and 1 should have been enough.
She had also seen his creepiness prior to this encounter and was not comfortable being around him and asked why he felt entitled to her responses and time.
He responded with a classic 'hahaha'. Sure buddy, you're defintiely laughing.
He claimed that he had enough experience to know who was 'playing games' and that she was one of them. He then proceeded to slut-shame her for wearing low tops.
Being a classic creep, he told her to have some self-respect and said she probably had sex with multople men 'when you could've been with me instead'.
Real winner this one.
To everyone's delight, she was not going to take this lightly.
She told him that being rejected was not 'experience' and that her sexuality wasn't for his eyes and that she was only one of the women who was creeped out by him.
She urged him to understand the word 'no and stop thinking women are playing games.
She ended the message by saying that if she was a 'sl*t' with no self-respect then he must really be a lowlife to be rejected by her.
Commenters thought she knocked it right out of the park and got him "Right in the Fedora!"
They couldn't believe the man's entitlement to her time and the lack of respect he had for a person he wanted to date.
Others clarified that she had the right to dress however she wanted without creeps thinking that it was an invitatoin for them to hit on them.
For women these words were the very red flags that tell them they made the right decision rejecting these 'nice guys'.