Woman Who Is A Diagnosed Sociopath Explains What It’s Like To Date Her

By Abdul Rafay in Relationships On 22nd October 2022
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A diagnosed sociopath has used TikTok to explain what life is like for her, from finding work to keeping friends, and now she has revealed what dating her is like.

Though not in a literal sense, TikToker @notkanikabatra stated in her videos that she believes "all relationships are transactional."

According to Batra, when she first goes on a date, she has a tendency to view the other person as an object, but as they begin to "humanize themselves," she tends to "get bored and discard them, most of the time."

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The TikToker added that "never will they become significant," adding that she is looking for people who "bring value to my life."

She earlier disclosed that she had been visiting a psychiatrist and was "working through these toxic thought patterns" after being diagnosed with anti-social personality disorder (ASPD).

She spoke about what it would be like to date her and how she approached dating in one of her most recent videos.

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She said: "I date men and women very differently, I'm very, very picky about who I give my time to. Status and money don't do anything for me, I go purely on looks.”

"In the early stages of dating a man if there's no stimulating conversation, he will be ghosted or blocked and deleted. Games and negging don't work on me, I like a man to pursue me properly.”

"I'm a lot kinder and softer when it comes to women because I feel I can relate to them a lot more. I treat women with a lot of respect because I know what they've been through."

@notkanikabatra What it’s like to date a diagnosed sociopath #aspd #fyp #viral #personalitydisorder #clusterb #foryou #dating ♬ original sound - Kanika Batra

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She added: "I like to take the dominant role in courting and paying for things. I lovebomb intensely and am very enthusiastic. This is why when I discard I get a lot of stalkers."

The insight it provides into the inner workings of a sociopath's mind has drawn people in, and the video has now received over a million views.

Some viewers were curious to learn her point of view, while others said that at least she was being "honest" about how she thought.

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In the comment sections below her videos, other people who had received an ASPD diagnosis expressed how comfortable they felt since they were relieved to be in an environment that wasn't "demonizing" them.

A few people expressed their praise for her for being so open about her life, while others expressed their wish for her to find "a good and loving relationship."

It's important to note that there are several differences between sociopathy and psychopathy. Psychopaths are known to have little to no conscience, whilst sociopaths are said to be more reckless and inconsistent in their behaviors.

Oddly enough, while the average cryptocurrency investor displays psychopathic traits, BMW and Audi drivers are more likely to be psychopaths.

Good to know.