16 Serious Struggles Everyone With Thick, Unruly Hair Know All Too Well

#1 If you brush your hair when it's dry...you'll end up hating yourself. Fact

#2 Showering at someone else's house. They just don't understand what an absolute ordeal this is for you and your thick, thick hair.

#3 You're really sick of hearing how you "should" wear your hair.

Everyone else who just don't understand your hair think they can offer advice that might actually be helpful or surpasses your own expertise.

#4 People just don't understand the amount of time it takes for you to properly do your hair

They just don't.

#5 Oh the ponytail kink. We know it well don't we? You just can't go back and forth.

#6 Hair styling in the morning just isn't an option.

Why bother trying to be a normal person? Not gonna work...unless you want to get up at 3am.

#7 And then there's the thing where entire evenings get gobbled up by doing your hair.

Others never get this. They think we're exaggerating, or lying, or making an excuse for something. But nope. It takes that long.

#8 Going to the beach. Ugh.

Your hair doesn't dry in that beautiful, salty, wavy, sun-kissed way everyone else does. You get the awkward kinks, strange part, and frizz..omg the frizz. And of course everyone always wants to know why you don't dunk.

#9 Going anywhere that involves water or moisture in general really

I promise if there's a sprinkler, a hose, surprise rain, sweating, or any other moisture producing occurrence, the person with the thick or unruly hair becomes the most unattractive person, instantly.

#10 Sooo, humidity though

It's the worst. It's a life ruiner. It ruins everything. It ruins lives.

#11 There's no way that hair-tie's going around 3 times.

But 2 times? Too loose? You lose.

#12 For most of your life, you've been spending a small fortune on hair products.

And are basically an eternal guinea pig, attempting to find the latest serum that will cure all you ills. Which never happens.

#13 Packing for a trip.

No matter how small it is...if hair washing is imminent, or any of the previously mentioned might occur then packing just 4 million times more difficult for you than those without your untamed coiffe.

#14 The hair dresser has hated you at least once...and probably several times.

Either you've angered them for not warning them to allow more time between appointments or they just get damn sick of you. Fact.

#15 Those cute hair tutorials?

No. Not happening. Ever.

#16 Lastly, knowing that your new S.O. will eventually have to see what your 'real' hair looks like.

Romance=dead.