7 People Share What Having A Threesome Is Really Like

#1 You Never Go Back

"It was honestly awesome. My girlfriend and her best friend, was actually my gf idea too. No awkward moments during before or after. She is still best friends with my gf and I haven't felt weird about it at all. In fact it happens pretty much whenever my gf wants it to because her friend is always down. I was hesitant at first to do it because I thought it would or could ruin things with my gf. Not so, I said no to a 3some for 11 months before I finally agreed to do it. And it was awesome."

#2 The Rigged Threesome

For HarmonyLuv, the only thing more awkward than giggling in the shower during a threesome was finding out that the whole thing was rigged to happen from the beginning.

"I've had many threesomes and the only one that was awkward was my first-ever (MFM). My ex, his best friend and I are drinking the night away and my ex suggests strip poker. This was when I was a light weight so, I was more drunk then they were, but I was game. We start playing and I'm actually doing pretty good...my downfall was that I had to use the restroom.

I come back and my ex's best friend says whichever of the guys can get me naked is the winner and they get me for the night. I agree (being completely smashed) and proceed to lose in the next two hands to my ex. He leads me to the shower (one of the things he hadn't tried yet) and we start going at it, next thing I know I feel a second pair of hands on my body. I turn and his best friend joined us. I had fun that night, but it was awkward because none of us knew what to do. There was a lot of stopping and giggling on my part, then shock when I found out that stacked the deck so I'd lose."

#3 The Threesome BFF

"Was invited to a three some with a friend and her husband... she kicked him out about fifteen minutes in, two months later they weren't married anymore and my 3 year relationship/ best friendship I've ever had started, I guess it should have been awkward when she kicked him out but I was very drunk and didn't spend too much time in deep thought about the inner workings of their relationship. Me and the girl are no longer together, she is still my roommate and knows me better than anyone on the planet. Probably the most morally reprehensible thing I took place in... but given the chance I'd do it over again every time. Totally worth it to have her around."

#4 When Threesomes Backfire

If you decide to have a threesome, make sure to stay sober or you could lose your boyfriend like Attica_chomper did.

"Had one a few weeks ago with my best friend and boyfriend of 6 years. I trusted them completely and that's the only reason I agreed. And she's hot as hell and I didn't mind fooling around with her. It went well except for I was wayyyy too drunk and passed out before I really got too involved. My boyfriend and her fucked for hours and immediately the next day I knew it was a mistake. He wouldn't stop talking about her and just a few days ago I caught them sexting and from it sounds like they've been fooling around behind my back.

Now we're going through an extremely hard break up and with no family to go to, I'm renting the guest room in his parent's house. I still love him so much, but I know it was my mistake for letting him try out some new pussy after 6 years. We're high school sweethearts so he never had anyone else and now he's obsessed with the idea of more. My advice: don't fucking do it and expect no repercussions."

#5 The Jealousy Curveball

If you have a threesome, make sure the third party isn't a local. If, Drqxx had followed that rule, he'd still be in a relationship.

"I ruined the relationship I was in. someone will always poison it with jealousy. Best scenario is to have your SO meet a stranger or friend that lives out of town. That's your best bet. Also let your girl lead and make sure she gets the most attention. It will pay dividends down the road if you keep her happy."

#6 The Coolest Roommate Ever

A third party can make things extra kinky in bed, and they make great cuddle buddies too, until they run off and marry someone else, like Roommates_w_benefits and his girlfriend learned.

"I'm a dude and on multiple occasions I banged my live-in girlfriend and our smoking hot roommate (my girlfriend's best friend). All of the occasions started out with us drinking a bit too much. Then my girlfriend would make out with our roommate, my roommate would start going down on my girlfriend, and I would bang the roommate from behind while she was chomping box. Actually come to think of it, this is how every single time started.

We would always all cuddle after, sleep in the same bed, then bang again in the morning. A few times my girlfriend was too tired so I would just bang the roommate on my own. We also did this on vacation, got extra kinky with a three way oral sex thing. My girlfriend then got tired, went to bed, and I continued to bang the roommate.

It was never awkward after. We usually just all went to brunch then went about our day. We're still all incredibly close friends. Roommate got married a bit ago and her husband is super cool. He knows all about it and even high-fived me when he found out."

#7 The Kink In MMF Relations

"I had a MMF. Male friend wanted us to do his girlfriend together. The first awkward moment was making a move on her. We discussed how, but just taking the leap was... awkward. The other awkward moment was generally being with another guy naked in bed. I'm an open minded guy, but failed to calculate how bad I'd feel with a sweaty naked friend with a big old boner ejaculating inches from me. Not my cup of tea. So sex with his girlfriend - fantastic. With him nearby, repulsive enough I wouldn't do it again."