Here’s What Guys REALLY Think Of Your Body, It’s A Real Eye-Opener.

#1

It's very easy for a woman to become insecure of her body. Believe it or not, even super models get self-conscious about certain body parts. But what most women fail to realize is that men don't take close attention to little details that women love to obsess over.

Have you ever wondered what men really thought about a woman's body? Is it true that they all find relatively the same body type attractive? Well, they don't. Every woman is different and men know that. There's no point in obsessing over comparing your body to someone else's when you're perfectly beautiful the way you are.

The issue with body image is that it's derived from self identification with one's body. If you think it defines you, you will always be insecure about it, no matter how close to perfect you get. If you instead see your body as something you possess and control, body image is no longer an issue for you because you understand that this body, no matter it's current state, does not determine your worth. Celebrate your body (and let him do it, too)!

Here's a few tips of what men really think of your body, and it's not what you expect.

Men may think you're attractive when you think you're not.

Men and women don't always agree on what is attractive in a women. What you may be self-conscious about may actually be a huge attraction to guys. They focus more so on the bigger picture than little details (such as zits).

#2

Confidence makes a big difference.

How many times do we have to say this over and over. Confidence makes a person sexy, same goes for men. Attitude makes a difference to how a guy will perceive you.

#3

You have the ability to draw men's attention to the parts you do like.

Don't worry about not looking normal. Women have the power to point men's attention towards the body parts they want to and away from the body parts they don't want noticed.

#4

Men look at a woman's figure.

Unfortunately, we don't get to choose our genes. Some women are naturally thinner and some larger. Nonetheless, what men look for is a "figure," a proportion between the hips, waist and bust. This "figure" can be achieved with any body type.

#5

Wrinkles aren't as relevant as you think they are.

Women love to obsess over wrinkles, crow's feet, laugh lines -- basically any visible line on their face. These signs of aging, however, have no effect on a woman's beauty. Men generally don't care about these things.

#6

Although men work out in the gym for muscles, that doesn't necessairly mean they want you to have muscles as well.

There is nothing wrong with a woman going to a gym and working out. Staying healthy is good. However, a guy doesn't care for a six pack or 3% body fat on a girl. All you need to work on is toning your body.

#7

Most men don't really get caught up in the color and shape of your hair.

A lot of women love to experiment with their hair, whether it's with length or color. Men, however, don't necessairly notice when you come out of a salon with a new hairdo.

#8

What you view as your flaws, men perceive as unique.

The features that you work so hard to cover up and hide are actually what makes you unique and intriguing. Embrace what makes you, well, you. Different can be very attractive.

#9

Men aren't disappointed as easily as you think they are.

Women have an insecure fear that when men see their body unclothed, they'll be disappointed. However, most men don't get caught up in what they might find ideal or non-ideal on the body. For Christ sakes, there's a naked woman in front of them!

#10

Don't complain about your body weight.

Women who complain about their body weight are a huge turnoff to men. In fact, a more slender woman complaining about her weight may be deemed as less attractive than a thicker woman who doesn't complain. A lot of men actually prefer to be in a relationship with a woman who enjoys eating.

#11

Woman's breasts obviously won't go unnoticed.

We can't change this. A woman's breasts emphasizes her body. On a subconscious level to men, they actually indicate a woman is fertile and done with puberty.

#12

Men see what makes you womanly.

This means when a man looks at you, he instantly notices certain body parts that make you a woman. He'll even pay close attention to the way you walk. This means no he is not looking at your arm flaps and no he is not looking at your cellulite.

#13

A man loves a real woman, not one from the magazines.

Nothing's going to stop him from looking at the near perfect models in magazines, but none of that is real. Picture perfection is no competition to a real life living woman standing right in front of him. Rest assured, he'll take a real woman over a figment of his imagination any time.

#14

Don't worry so much about your hips and thighs not fitting into those jeans.

A lot of women start to weep when they realize they can no longer squeeze into a few of their jeans. They think it's unflattering how big their thighs and hips may have become. Men, on the contrary, love the idea of having something to hold on to.