Obey These 6 Rules When Giving Oral
By
Shehzad in
Facts
On 29th August 2016
A blowjob doesn't have to be a job for her.
“The more comfortable and pleasing you make it for her, the more enthusiastic she’ll be about doing it more often,” says sex and marriage therapist Moushumi Ghose.
That being said, some women simply aren’t down with going down.
If that’s the case, try to find out why—and if there’s anything you can do to make it better for her. If she’s still not on board, know that she’s not obligated to give oral sex.
Otherwise, consider these rules for fellatio etiquette.
#1 No Rush!!
No one can enjoy getting it if they feel like they're on the clock! In fact, that's just going to make it harder (in the bad way). Relax and enjoy your job ;)
#2 No Pressure
Make sure to tell her there's no pressure. Even if *it* doesn't happen that time, she needs to know you're not going to be upset if she can't. Don't let her start worrying about how YOU'RE doing.
#3 Technique
Mix it up a little. But make sure to ask her what she likes the best, and don't be all butt-hurt when it's not what you thought she would like. Just have fun :)
#4 Feel Sexy Too
If you're giving oral, make sure you feel sexy too. One thing that can really ruin the moment is a sour stomach. Take some Beano or Pepto! Take a shower! Put some cologne on...do SOMETHING that will make you feel like the god you're about to become!
#5 Be Interested!
Most of all: BE INTERESTED! Look, even if you don't particularly enjoy giving oral, for god's sake guys, act like you enjoy it!!! Take some ibuprofen if your neck hurts. Like her neck never hurt...She deserves it! Don't make it into a chore.
#6 Getting Lucky Goes Both Ways
Equality is key. Everyone should be having fun here! If you're the only one having fun it's time to man up! And we say man because you know this is about you guys. We all know it is.