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When Jason Hewlett's eye was caught by a stunning blonde while out shopping, he felt instantly guilty but it was actually a good thing for his marriage
#2
He posted this on facebook "Kind of embarrassed to admit this, but I think I sort of cheated on my wife today. To explain what I mean, I was at Target getting a few manly things, you know - eyebrow tweezers, toenail clippers, beard trimmers, mustache molding waxes, some beef jerky, sardines, trail mix, a loofah - and as I went to pay I saw this woman in line that knocked me out. I thought, "Wow, some lucky guy is with her", and in a split second I realized it was my wife! You know, it was just out of context to see my spouse at the same store, in the same line, living her life and not knowing she might be at the same place, same time, different car. There was a person between us, so I just watched my cute little Love, tried to text her stuff like, "Hey Hottie" and "What are you buying now my Babelicious?", none of which got her attention as she was looking for a coupon she'd saved just for this purchase. So I gave up getting her attention, as you can imagine I easily could have humiliated her by leaping on the register as a Raptor and really making her publicly proud, and instead just stood back and silently observed my feelings about this woman. First off, I was taken aback by how amazingly beautiful she is once again. I believe I see it often, but today, not knowing she was at the store, I saw her with new eyes and just couldn't believe I get to be her fella. It made me blush - but no one could see it under my huge monster Movember beard. Second, it amazed me that she didn't notice me in the slightest. This is both a good and a bad thing. Good in that she doesn't have a wandering eye. Good in that she didn't see the creepy dude with the overgrown mink on his face peering over her shoulder. But maybe that's bad, too, like what if it hadn't been me? I need to get her another can of mace just in case. But it was also bad because I realized how close I came to not ever winning her love in the first place, and the herculean efforts I had to make all those years ago to even get her attention just to say yes to one date! For a minute I felt that familiar grief of doom when I first saw her and knew well, that's impossible. But somehow I nabbed her despite my insecurities, inabilities, and imperfections. Third, I was ultimately so pleased to see her in complete confidence on this day, as the independent, capable, humble, fun, sweet, kind, awesome person she is. And then she grabbed her things and walked out the door. I never said anything, didn't flag her down, just watched her walk away, admiringly, knowing she's my wife and I love everything about this woman. She rarely looks at Facebook so she won't see this post, she won't realize she was kind of cheated on today, but I thought I'd share with you all since I'm just a dweeby guy making my way through life, and at the same time sure there are those who have had the same experiences regarding their loved ones in one way or another, and these moments are perfect. Lesson of the Day: It's good to look at those we love with fresh eyes whenever we can to remind us how lucky we are to have their light in our lives."
#3 He confessed on facebook that he felt he had cheated on his wife while he was out for shopping,but it isn't what we all were thinking.
#4 Jason hewlett's open confession revealed he saw a girl while shopping
His eyes got stuck on her for a while and he claimed that she was stunning.
The 37-year-old was at his local Target and as he went to pay he saw this woman in line who "knocked me out".
He went on: "I thought, 'Wow, some lucky guy is with her', and in a split second I realised it was my wife!"
#5 The dad of four was actually looking at his wife this whole time! cute isn't it? i'm just about to cry.
He texted her but she didn't notice. In that moment he realized how beautiful she looked once again and how lucky he is to have her, he stated, "I was taken aback by how amazingly beautiful she is once again. I believe I see it often, but today, not knowing she was at the store, I saw her with new eyes and just couldn't believe I get to be her fella.
It made me blush - but no one could see it under my huge monster Movember beard."
#6 She never exchanged looks..
Moreover he also mentioned that she didn't even notice him or someone looking at her that made him feel so good to realize that she doesn't have wandering eyes and she only has eyes for his husband! He also admired her confidence and boldness.
He said "She rarely looks at Facebook so she won't see this post, she won't realize she was kind of cheated on today, but I thought I'd share with you all."
Having seen his beloved from a whole new perspective, he sad he'd learned a "Lesson of the Day".
"It's good to look at those we love with fresh eyes whenever we can to remind us how lucky we are to have their light in our lives."
#7 But then eventually his wife replied with heart melting words
His wife replied beautifully to his post,
"To anyone who cares for CLARIFICATION from the WIFE of this amazing man... No, he wasn't in the doghouse and never is!
He probably did not recognize me that day because I actually got ready, he usually sees me in a braid and in my "good sweats" and he loves me that way too!
Wandering eye??? I trust him 100% I'm grateful that he sees the beauty in all people. He often pays compliments to women in front of me and I love that about him. I am secure enough with myself and I know who he chooses. He's a communicator and enjoys giving compliments, he wants people to feel good about themselves and feel joy, that's what he does for a living! Like I said in a previous comment it's OK that you cheated on me with me!
I really did not notice him in line behind me at Target I was too busy trying to save $10 on my $50 holiday purchase!
The "wait until she has kids and her body changes" comments.... I've had four of his beautiful children and my body shows it!!! He has adored me through many lbs and made me feel beautiful and loved at any weight!
As for the "gay"comments and "only a woman could write this" comments... Nope! He is in touch with a woman's needs and wants and is a romantic at heart! Check out his blog to see that these expressions of love are nothing new! http://jasonhewlett.com/commitment-to-love-tami-hewlett/ This quality makes a really good husband and a really happy wife!
He always asks me why I'm so good to him and I tell him because he's good to me! We are good to each other! We follow the golden rule Do unto others...
Yes, he is an Entertainer and the best one I've ever seen but an even better Husband and Daddy!
Thank you for all of the comments good, bad, funny and sad I'm so happy that his little story sparked some exchange of love and appreciation! Let's Love and appreciate each other a little more! That makes for a good marriage or any relationship... love, appreciation ,trust,and selfless service .... That is what works for us!
And believe that this kind of love really does exist because I'm here to tell you it does!
I love you Jason Hewlett , my Dweebie husband"
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This kind of love is rare and hard to find, when you find it cherish it.
