If I said I never got rejected in my life, then I guess I’m just trying to ignore what happened during my life from about 1997 until 2016. Rejection hurts! But you can’t force somebody to like you. Trust me — I have tried everything from love spells to replacing all of their photos in their house with images of me. But as you grow more mature, you kind of appreciate a rejection. After all, this is the day and age of ghosting. Having someone say, “Hey, I’m not really feeling this” may suck, but it’s better than waiting for a text that never comes.
Woman Decides Not To Ghost Date, Learns Men Can’t Handle Rejection Either Way
#1 This guy can’t handle his shit at all, though.
#2 Obviously, a rejection is going to hurt your ego.
It’s way easier to simply not message someone and ignore them instead of dealing with the truth… but isn’t it way more wussy, too? I agree, rejection is tough, and so is telling someone that you don’t want to see them again.
#3 As humans, we’re not logical.
How does beginning a statement with "look" make it appear as though she's speaking condescendingly to him?
#4 There is a level of respect that comes with dating
and it is really important to take into account the vulnerability of the other person’s emotions.
The act of ghosting provides absolutely no answers and you are left ultimately asking yourself what you may have said or done to ‘mess’ it up.”
#5 Acting what way, bro? That she doesn’t want to do the dirty deeds with you on repeat?
She probably wishes she just ghosted him now.
Honestly, if your ego is this sensitive you have to clap back at someone saying they don’t want to continue seeing you like that, then maybe you need to do something else with your time instead of swiping on Tinder. Join a sports league, take a poetry class, do something good for your self-esteem.
