Woman Gutted After Her Egyptian Toyboy Dumped Her, Calling Her 'Fat' And 'Old'

This woman separated from her 20-year-long husband for an Egyptian boyfriend half her age who ran off after taking her money

Joanna Girling, 45, fell in love with an Egyptian toyboy half her age and decided to divorce her husband to be with him. 

But the toyboy, 24, turned out to be a fraud who was only interested in her money. The poor woman was heartbroken when her young boyfriend dumped her saying she was fat and too old for him. 

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Joanna fell head over heels for a young waiter who flirted with her

Joanna Girling went on a vacation to Sharm El-Sheik in June 2018 and there she met the sexy 24-young-old waiter Hassan Kahlied. 

Joanna was enjoying her time with her then-partner John at the resort when she fell in love with the young man.

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The woman couldn't take him out of her mind and even sneaked away to get a fake certificate so she and Hassan could beat strict marriage laws and have sex as the whirlwind romance took off.

But things didn't stay like this for long as her lover soon showed his real self. Hassan changed his attitude as soon as Joanna wired £400 for food and bills. He told her he was to marry an Egyptian woman and that she was way too old for him. 

The heartbroken woman said;

"He just used me for my money, I felt like an idiot. I gave up my marriage for him."

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After being dumped, she thought she would never trust anyone but then found Hysm

This sad turn of events didn't make Joanna give up and she eventually found true love with Hysm Feygo, another Egyptian. Joanna and Hysm are hoping to have a baby together as they enter the next chapter of their life.

Joanna, from Norfolk, said: "I thought Hassan loved me, he'd told me he wanted to marry me but it turned out to be a lie."

"I didn't know if I could trust someone else again but Hysm is the love of my life. I know his feelings for me are real, he's never asked for a penny."

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The attention she received from the local men made Joanna think of her dull marriage life

It has been a decade since Joanna and her husband had been going on holiday to Sharm El-Sheikh. They go there two to three times every year but it was only recently that she began to notice the attention she was receiving from local men.

Joanna said: "I was happy in my marriage at first but as time went on we grew apart and I lost interest in having sex with him."

"Like a lot of married couples we became less and less attracted to each other but we stayed together for convenience. We didn't sleep together for nearly 10 years."

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"We didn't have kids but we had a house and dogs together.

"By 2018 he wasn't affectionate at all which made me feel unwanted and unattractive so when local men would compliment me in the shops and call me beautiful, I was flattered."

Hassan's flirting made Joanna sure he fancied her

It was Hassan who started flirting with Joanna at first. The woman told Hassan would flirt with her whenever her husband was away from the table.

"He said I should spend the day with him and that he'd show me around the city."

"He was so flirty from the start that I knew he fancied me."

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"We were talking and he made me feel sexy for the first time in years."

"I began sneaking out in the afternoon to meet him while John was lounging by the pool."

"I wanted to sleep with him from the first day I met him but Hassan said that we'd need a fake marriage certificate first."

"Egypt is strict about premarital sex so we couldn't rent a room together without one."

After a lot of struggle, they both managed to obtain a fake marriage license online to rent an apartment where they could have sex.

She said: "It was incredible, he was so young and keen. It was the best sex of my life - mindblowing after ten years of no physical contact."

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"I knew then that I had to leave my husband.

"We'd gone a decade with no physical contact at all. It was no way to live - it was no longer a marriage.

"It was the end of my trip but Hassan wanted to see me again so even on the way home I was making plans to return."

Finally, after returning home, she broke off her 20-year marriage and told her husband that she had fallen in love with the young Egyptian waiter. John was furious but he already suspected something was going on. 

She said: "He was furious but he'd suspected something was going on, we didn't have kids but we had seven dogs together."

Hassan stayed in contact with her and would even call at her job working nights at Tesco.

She said: "He needed money for things like food and bills."

"So I sent him £400 to help out. I didn't ask for proof, I trusted that he was telling me the truth."

After waiting for two months, Joanna finally managed to fly back to the city of Hurghada where Hassan was waiting to meet her.

She said: "I gave him the gifts he'd asked me for. He also took control of my holiday money, of £1,100 saying that he'd handle it."

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The gifts included pairs of jeans, shirts, trainers, aftershave, and a bottle of Cognac, as well as the £1,100 she'd saved up for the trip.

They both then rented an apartment and Joanna was super excited about the life ahead of her.

She said: "We were having sex all the time, we just couldn't get enough of each other but after a couple of weeks, Hassan kept disappearing for days at a time, saying he needed to visit his family."

Hassan would disappear for days leaving Joanna with no money so she found work as a nursery teacher to make some money. 

She said: "I'd try to ring him but there'd be no answer. After splitting from my husband I had no savings, the cash I'd brought with me was all I had."

Curious Joanna then asked Hassan's neighbors and locals where he might be. She was devastated when she got to know he had gone home to have an engagement party as he was due to get married.

"I was devastated but over text, Hassan insisted it wasn't true and when he returned after 10 days he denied it."

Things soon came to an end and Hassan, 24, told Joanna to go home for a few weeks. He said the apartment was too expensive and that she needed to save more money as his small salary is not enough for them.

She said: "I was devastated to leave. But he had a point, I had no money left and he only earned a small salary as a waiter."

"My holiday money had all gone so the plan was for me to come home, stay with family, and work to save money to go back."

Joanna was so broke that she didn't even have money to go back. Her friend paid for her flight and when she landed at Hamburg Airport on a layover, she discovered the truth about Hassan.

The toyboy lover dumped her through a text saying she was fat and old, and about his plans to marry an Egyptian woman.

She said: "I just didn't understand. He'd told me that he'd loved me, why lie?"

Though she was heartbroken but also determined to settle in Egypt and enjoy life under the sun. 

She said: "I didn't have anything keeping me in England, he'd gotten rid of everything, my clothes, all of my things, all I had left was the clothes in my suitcase."

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Joanna continued working and save enough money to return to back to Hurghada in March 2019. In Egypt, she rejoined her job as a nursery teacher.

She said: "I didn't go out there looking for love. I just love the country and wanted to be back there."

She never heard from Hassan again who blocked her on all social media accounts. 

Three months later, she accidentally met Hysm Feygo, 38, who invited her and a female friend in to look around his herb and spice shop.

Joanna connected with the shopkeeper over a warm cup of herbal tea.

She said: "I can't quite grasp what it is but there's just something about him, he makes me feel comfortable and, from the moment we met, it was like we'd known each other a long time."

She then walked with her friend to her hotel and then returned to the shop to ask Hysm to order her a taxi to her place.

She said: "He joined me in the cab and we had sex that night. It was amazing but at first, it was just about sex."

"Hysm wanted a relationship but I'd already been hurt once by Hassan so I was wary but the more I got to know him the more I trusted him. He didn't ask me for a penny."

They both are now living together under another fake marriage license. 

Joanna now works as a nursery teacher in Egypt and when she returns home, Hysm cooks romantic meals for her.

Hysm turned out to be even more romantic, a year ago he came home with a silver band for her wedding finger as he already considers her his wife.

She said: "He didn't even propose.

"He didn't need to - he already considers me his wife but we're hoping to make it official next year once I've divorced my husband."

Now the couple is trying for a baby to expand their family.

"We have sex every other day and I'm hoping I'm not too old to get pregnant."

"I'm very happy with my toyboy who never asks me for money. I know he's with me because he loves me."