10 Mistakes Women Make When Trying To Win Over A Man

#1 Being unambitious

Smart men will not be interested in you if you're way below them intellectually. Raise your standards!

Have dreams,goals,aim,work hard,represent yourself!

#2 Using sex as your weapon

This doesn't just include sex but your body as well, never use your body to attract men. If you're just going to use your body, you will attract shallow men. Smart women use their mind and not body.Physical attraction has always been temporary but being attracted to someone's mind, personality and soul brings true affection.

#3 Being too shy

Shyness makes one look immature and insecure. Overcome your fear of conversing with new people. Just remember there's absolutely nothing wrong in making the first move.

#4 Trying to control him

This is a total turn off for men! Men run away from women who try to change them. Everyone likes to be himself.

Sure, some bad habits (like consistently ditching you for his friends) need to be improved but not by force. If you value your relationship, you need to know that trying to control your man will only drive him away. If he has nasty habits that you've discussed with him, and he doesn't wish to change, move on and look for someone better suited for you.

#5 Despising the Golden Rule

Always remember treat him the way you want to be treated. It's always a healthy give and take in relationships.

#6 Not taking care of your body

You don't have to have perfect curves; but do your best to stay in shape and keep looking good. It helps with so many things from getting a job to getting a boyfriend!

God made your body, and you should take care of it. A woman not taking care of her body comes across as one who doesn't care about herself enough to respect her own body. The message it sends to men is, "If I do not respect and like myself, why should you?"

#7 Being jealous

Jealousy comes from insecurity, if you're not sure about yourself how can someone else be? love yourself as much as you love your man.

#8 Being clingy

I'm an exception among men, because I love a clingy woman; but most men hate it. Take it easy! Don't obsess over him. Don't try to claim "ownership." You must earn him, not kidnap him.

#9 Making him beg for forgiveness

Only weak or immature men accept such behavior. Unless you want a slave rather than a mature and determined man, This in no way creates a balanced and rewarding relationship. He will make mistakes and you will too. Forgive him. Forgiveness brings happiness.

#10 Having no opinion

Why wouldn't you tell him how do you feel or what do you think? don't make yourself look dumb. Men dislike when women change their opinions to match what they think the man wants to hear. Don't try to be your man, he already exists.