You just have this feeling. Call it man's intuition, but you think something's up with your relationship. Perhaps you're noticing some of these signs that she's cheating on you. If so, it's time to confront her and find out the truth once and for all. And before you think that your relationship is bulletproof, know that almost 15 percent of wives are having an affair. Yikes!
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#1 She Doesn't Care
She used to care about everything when it came to your relationship. She wondered where you were and what you were doing, and now she seems distant.
#2 She's Protective Of Her Phone
She never cared about leaving her phone around before. Now she keeps it on her at all times, and if she uses it around you, she angles the screen away from your view. She could either be cheating or planning your surprise party.
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#3 She Doesn't Show Affection Anymore
It's not just sex she's been avoiding. She doesn't even hug you, cuddle, or hold hands anymore. Before you jump to the cheating conclusion though, this might also be depression or self-esteem pulling the strings. Make sure you know the answer before you throw accusations her way.
#4 She's Acting Antsy On Her Birthday
If all of this is happening around her birthday, that's another clue that she's cheating. Apparently, incidents of women cheating are tripled when it's around their birthday.
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#5 Her Appearance Has Changed
She's suddenly going to the gym and losing weight, getting her hair done and buying nicer clothes. She could just be trying to reinvent herself. Or she's getting fancy for her new side piece.
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#6 She's Hanging Out With Her Friends A Lot More
And you aren't invited. Most nights, she's helping her ladies or going for a night on the town. But is she really? That might just be the excuse she gives when she goes to shack up with another guy.
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#7 She Stops Talking About Your Future Together
She doesn't talk about going on a trip together over the summer or finally getting married after all these years. When you bring them up, she changes the subject. Not a good sign, bro.
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#8 She's Suddenly Convinced You're Cheating
Nothing has changed on your end, yet your girlfriend is so concerned that you could be cheating on her. Where did this come from? It could be guilt that she's transferring onto you, because she's the once who's cheating.
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#9 Her Underwear Has Suddenly Gotten A Lot Fancier
She's going out with her bras and panties matching. She even made a few trips to Victoria's Secret. But if she isn't presenting these to you on a special occasion, then they're probably meant for someone else.
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#10 She Gets Defensive
Whenever you ask her an innocent question about work or what's new with her friends after girls' night on the town, she blows up at you. That's very odd, and indicative of much bigger problems. Time to confront her about everything you've found.
