238 Pounds and One Boyfriend Lighter, Woman Changes Her Life By Dumping Her "Feeder"

#1 721 Pond Woman Loses Her "Feeder" Boyfriend AND The Weight

Patty Sanchez, 51, or Reno, NV, once wanted to be the heaviest woman in the world, and was well on her way. With the encouragement of her boyfriend, he had her consuming over 13,000 calories per day! Trying to make her as fat as possible.

#2 It All Spiraled Out Of Control When She Met A Man With A Fat Fetish

After divorcing her second husband in 1991, Patty, who used to be a size eight and weighed 154 lbs at 18, gave up on diets. She then married again and had two sons, and her weight went up to 238 lbs. Her weight continued to rise over the years until after nearly a decade she gave up on diets, that's when Patty met her now-ex-boyfriend who introduced her to the gainer-feedee relationship fetish.

#3 He Began Feeding Her For Online Fetish Fans And Having Her Squash Him On Video Chats

Patty said her then boyfriend had 'fantasies about being with a girl and making her fatter' and he had told her he wanted to make her fatter and fatter and enjoyed being 'squashed' by a big women for sexual pleasures. Later he began filming the scenes for an online fetish site and had men send food to Patty to jeep her at her weight.

#4 She Believed The Relationship Was Based On Love Because She Had Never Felt It Before

"He was very verbal and liked my body and I didn't need approval from him the way I did in my other relationships," she said. But all that came to an end when she finally realized that he only wanted her to be his fantasy and that her weight was keeping her from doing everyday things. At one point she could barely make it to the bathroom without being winded. She dumped her boyfriend with the help of her two sons Logan and Scott.

#5 After They Split Up She Began Buying Her Own HEALTHY Foods

Having to finally buy her own food and prepare her own meals, Patty decided she would try to lose all that weight, and started by eating healthy meals. She now cooks herself salads, chicken, stir-fries and tries to eat very few carbs through the day. 'I have more control over what I eat now and I feel so much better.' she said.

#6 Her Quality Of Life Is Improving Every Day

After gaining over 14 pounds every week, Patty's family, including her two sons Scott Webber, 30 and Logan Webber, 28, were concerned about her rapid weight gain. Scott said: 'There was nothing healthy about going up to a weight where you have no quality of life - it was upsetting as her son to see her in a situation where she was physically deteriorating.'

#7 She Is Now Active And Doing Healthy Things To Improve Her Quality Of Life

With the help of her two grown sons, Patty eats about 3,000 calories a day and is more mobile and active. Together they workout and walk as much as possible every day to help Patty maintain and even lose more weight. She is hoping to soon, with the help of a doctor, reduce her caloric intake even further.

#8 Her Lowest Pint Was When She Was At 721 Pounds

Her lowest point in her life was when she was at her heaviest weight of 721 lbs and couldn't walk three steps to the bathroom from the bed.

'It would take me 20 minutes to get back to bed - I never went outside and it was a lonely and dark time in my life,' She said.

#9 With Family Support She Keeps Active And Has Began Enjoying The Smaller Things In Life

Now that she has lost weight, Patty said is able to walk, bathe, and paint her toenails - which she couldn't reach before. Small thing she never realized could be so much fun, she is now enjoying as she sticks to her diet and keeps losing the weight.

#10 She Plans To Keep Losing The Weight And Becoming A Better Person

238 pounds and counting, Patty has never felt so good in her life. She is happy she came to her senses and ditched her obsessed boyfriend and came out of her dark period to turn her life around. Her kids are very proud of her for changing her lifestyle, and they have a better relationship now. She says that everyday she is becoming a better person because her entire attitude towards LIVING has changed.