#1 He Made Space For You Without Your Asking
You didn't have to ask for a drawer at his place. He cleared one out for you.
#2 The Way He Courted You Was An Accurate Depiction Of What The Relationship Would Be Like
If he took you dancing, you still dance. If he cooked for you, he still cooks. There wasn't a bunch of false advertising.
#3 He Respects His Exes — And Is Still Friends With Some Of Them
And you have nothing to be worried about. He doesn't talk smack about any of the women who have been in his life, either.
#4 ...And He Has Female Friends You Like
You have friend crushes on several of his female friends.
#5 He Often Asks What You Want Him To Cook
Not only is he cooking you dinner, he's considering what you'd like to eat as well.
#6 He Picks Up Snacks That Only You Eat
Cause he's thoughtful like that.
#7 He Remembers Little Details From Stories You Tell Him
It's all stored in there, and you don't often have to repeat things. He's listening.
#8 He Holds His Ground, But He's Able To Admit When He's Wrong
He can argue with you and stands up for himself, but he also has enough self-awareness to admit when he's wrong.
#9 ... And His Behavior Changes In Small, Meaningful Ways As A Result
He isn't just about words the actions always follow up any admission he was wrong, and his behavior adjusts without your having to ask.
#10 He Calls You On It When You're Being Immature
When you're acting out, he doesn't make you feel stupid but he does treat you like an adult by calling you out on it.
#11 You Can Sometimes Feel His Eyes On You When You're Not Watching
He finds lots of little ways to make you feel desired.
#12 He Never Laughs At Your Fantasies
He's open to trying new things in bed and in life.
#13 Being Afraid Of Period Sex Wouldn't Even Occur To Him
In fact, he has a special towel reserved for it.
#14 He Couldn't Wait To Introduce You To His People
He was excited to introduce you to his friends and family, and didn't hide you for a second.
#15 He Wants To Be With You — And Tells You Often
You don't wonder how he feels about you. You know because he tells you, often.
#16 He Values Your Opinion On Major Purchases
This is different than asking for permission. But if he's buying a new watch or bike, he's curious what you think of it.
#17 You've Each Evolved On An Issue Since Meeting
When I met my boyfriend, he inspired me to make the leap to becoming a vegetarian. Since then, I helped him commit fully to veganism.
#18 He's More Likely To Call Women "Women" Than "Girls"
And if he isn't, and you call him on it, he'll try to adjust his behavior.
#19 ... And You're More Likely To Think Of Him As A Man Than A "Boy" Or "Guy"
Because he acts like one.
#20 He Brings Up Feminist Issues
You've talked about catcalling, abortion, you name it. He wants to understand your perspective.
#21 He Isn't Likely To Call Women "Bitch"
Certainly not when he's angry at you, but not really in reference to any woman.
#22 He Never Questions Whether PMS Is A Valid Excuse
And often goes out of his way to make you feel better.
#23 You Can Talk About Poop With Him
Everybody poops, and if you felt self-conscious pooping at his place in the beginning, he helped you get over that, quick.
#24 He Asks Questions Rather Than Telling You What To Do
Unless, you know, you want him to in certain situations. ;)
#25 He Doesn't Get All Threatened When You Flirt At Parties
In fact, he knows that a little bit of jealousy can fuel passion. Plus, he doesn't want to cramp your style.
#26 He's Always Learning About Something
He's curious about the world, and it's contagious.
#27 He Cares What Your Friends Think Of Him — And Wants To Hang Out With Them
And they like him.
#28 You Don't Find Yourself Spending Much Energy Worrying About The Relationship
Sure, sometimes you fight or fear commitment, but in general, there just isn't a ton of drama.
#29 Doing Nothing With Him Is Usually Your Favorite Part Of The Day
Even when it was a really good day.
#30 Most Of All, You Still Feel Like There's A Million Things You Could Add To This List
So tell him.
