4 Signs I Knew My Girlfriend Was The One I Should Marry

1.You two can communicate.

We are using a different definition of ‘talking' here. Usually, it may be defined as listening to the other person and then replying, but here it is the mutual sharing of dialogues with patience and the mental capacity to listen to and comprehend the point of view of the other person. Being able to talk is being able to accept their views with an open mind and expecting the same from them. It is more than essential for two people to be able to talk, to be there for each other when there is a need of sharing matters and the problems with those matters.

One of the most common problems I have personally seen in unstable relationships is that the two people don't talk the right way. Either it is the guy with an ego problem or the girl with an impatient attitude. We all have come across such couples and we can tell by judging them that one of them is playing their part wrong. Even if we, ourselves, cannot define the ‘right' way to talk, we can still tell by listening to a fighting couple talk that he or she is being unreasonable. Couples have disputes and it's a normal thing, but they are only solved when one of two or both of them decide to compromise to the views of the other. That is talking. That is communicating. If she does that and you see that quality in her, she definitely values the relationship a lot.

2. All She Asks for is Love and she doesn't need you

We, as humans, always have doubts about everything ranging from people to products. We wonder if it/they are genuine and our money/time won't be wasted on them. It is not an evil or morally bad thing to doubt people or things as long as you don't express it in everyone's face. We naturally ask ourselves if we are making the right choice when we make friends with a person or go out with them. We wonder if they will be healthy for us or if their presence will only affect us in some way. We also silently stay doubtful about what they want from us. We obviously get involved with another person for either love or comfort or anything that makes us feel good and wanted. It is obviously our needs that make us want to be with someone, but we want to be sure too if the other person wants the same from us.

If she is financially stable and has a career and her own friends etc, then it is a good sign. How? It means that she is able to take care of herself financially and can do anything for herself. It means that the reason she chose you is pure; that she only wants to confide with you her life and her emotions and her secrets. It means that all she asks for is love.

When your girlfriend has her own life, career and friends, this isn't something to fear, but something to embrace. This is a self-sufficient person choosing you out of all the people on Earth. She doesn't need you for anything but love. There is no better feeling than being in a relationship in which both parties contribute to make each other's lives together happier.

And just from a numbers standpoint money issues are the third-leading cause of divorce in America. I grew up in a house where daily fighting took place over money. There's no way for certain to know if my parents would still be together if they were both financially self-sufficient, but it would've made the odds way better.

3.She doesn’t have secret guy friends.

Fellas, you know exactly what I'm talking about. Have you ever been dating a girl, and six months in, she starts telling you about her amazing guy friend who you've never heard her mention before? Red flag all day.

Girls like to play a game called "it's cool for me to do but not for you." A girl will check your Instagram and ask you who this is or who that is and show small signs of jealousy, but as soon as you do it, there's a huge problem.

The woman you think is the one you're suppose to marry does the exact opposite. You've met her guy friends. You've been introduced as the person she's seeing, and boundaries have been established. There's no guessing game.

If a woman wants you, she will let it be known, and you better do the same.

4.How YOU treat her and Feel About Her:

Even if you see all of the above signs in her and do not feel attracted to or in love with her, then don't go further and ruin two lives. One thing that matters more than any sign is how you feel about her. Sometimes, no matter how great the person is or how much they seem to be the one for us, we do not feel attracted to them. Our heart does not accept them and we fail to see a future with them no matter how perfect they are.

It would be a shame if you feel like this for a person who has all the above mentioned signs, but still, we would suggest you to not go any further with them. You may hold their hand for their happiness but you, yourself, will feel empty all the time.

Further more he most full-proof sign that you want to marry your girlfriend is how you treat her. Actions speak louder than words, so what do you do for her?

Are you there to listen when she has a rough day? Do you two do things together frequently or as often as you can? Do you ever catch yourself looking at her thinking, "Man, I'm lucky"?

If the answer is "hell yeah," then what are you waiting for? Put a ring on it!