5 Things About Women That Every Men Should Know

A woman is a mystery but her eyes say it all. It’s actually not that hard enough and especially once you get to know the telltale signs. So here are some truths all women really want you to know and accept. Read on and learn.

#1 A Woman Constantly Needs To Be Reassured

She wants you to impress her, pamper her and most importantly Love her! Women don’t care how much you hate it, but if you want to keep her around, tell her how much she means to you. And tell her a lot. Otherwise, she will ask you a lot! Like, annoyingly a lot.

#2 A Woman Wants To Feel Loved

Many women feel insecure about our love for them. There are two things we men can do about it. First, reassure her. In times of conflict with our wives, we should tell them we love them no matter what and that everything will be okay—“I love you. We’ll get through this.” When she’s upset, she doesn’t need space, she needs a hug and to be held. Second, pursue her. Women need to be pursued throughout the relationship, just as we pursued them before we got married.

#3 A Woman Wants To Be Understood

Unlike many men who can only process one thing at a time, women are constantly juggling multiple thoughts and emotions all at the same time. Women need us to understand how they think and feel, even though that is hard. It would help us to understand that most women’s thought lives are like computers, with multiple windows open and processing all at once. They are complex. Have patience.

#4 A Woman Wants To Feel Beautiful

She needs to know, deep within, that we find her beautiful and that we only have eyes for her. She doesn’t just want to know, “Am I beautiful?” but, “Am I beautiful to him?” There may be many mirrors in your home, but the mirror that means most to your wife is you.

#5 A Woman Wants To Feel Listened To

Men, she doesn’t want us to fix it, she just wants us to listen. She doesn’t want or need our solution to the problem, even if she asked for our opinion. She does want us to understand how she’s feeling about the problem and identify with her in that feeling—“Thanks for sharing that with me” or “I’m so sorry that happened” would be good words to consider saying to her.

Above all, she just wants to be happy together. It's way much simpler than anything.

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