Men and women seem to have major communication issues. For some reason, despite having the same language, we can’t really quite understand what the other person is saying. In many cases, what girls say doesn’t register in guys’ minds the right way. Here we are going to see 5 things that men misunderstand.
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#1 Her "NO"
She said NO, and you are trying even harder. You totally misunderstood. Whenever you take her NO as challenge, the situation becomes more annoying.
Listening means listening, it doesn't mean that you should openly interpret everything to mean what ever you so choose. When a woman says “no” or “stop,” she doesn’t want to deal with a guy who tries to wear her down. The saying "no means no" has been a part of our culture for decades, but people still don't understand it.
#2 Saying "I Am Taken"
If a girl says she’s taken, she’s trying to turn you down gently. You don't have to retort with the fact that her partner might not be next to her right now.. how does that change anything? Or she might legitimately be taken. This doesn’t mean she wants a “side guy,” and it doesn’t mean that you should wait around for her to change her mind.
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#3 Saying That "It's Nothing, I Am Fine"
A woman who says that is usually not fine, and no, it’s not “nothing.” She’s really angry at you and believes that you should have already figured out what is making her so irate. If you don’t find out, you probably have trouble on the horizon
#4 Her "May Be"
Her may be doesn't always mean YES. It means that, right now, she might not be in the mood to do whatever you just suggested. It may mean that she’s playing coy. Use your common sense to figure out which it is - or if it’s just a copout because she’s too nice to tell you “no.”
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#5 Awkard shuffling Away And Her avoidance
The message behind this behaviour is “Leave me alone, and stop being creepy.” Most men assume that a woman who keeps away from them doesn’t want anything to do with them - and they’re right. But, a good amount of guys don’t understand that this often happens because the women in question are afraid of them or find their behavior to be creepy.
