So there is a girl you like. You think she's perfect. There is only one problem, you don't know if she's single. Well instead of just being bold and asking her right out you can do these subtle things to ask without actually asking. Pay attention.
5 Ways To Ask A Woman If She's Single Without Being A Jerk
#1 Be as indirect as possible.
You need to try your best to be indirect when it comes to finding out if she's attached. Just ask something simple in the middle of the conversation that asks what you want to ask but also fits in the context of the conversation. If she's waiting for a ride it could be as simple as saying, "Why hasn't your boyfriend gotten her to pick you up yet?" That way when she answers you it will be honest because she doesn't feel uncomfortable with you. Just make sure to keep things light and pleasant.
#2 Tell her that her boyfriend is a lucky man.
You can use this one in many different ways and it will almost always tell you what you want to know. A simple "Your boyfriend is super lucky to have a woman like you." or something similar will normally result in either a "thank you" or an "I'm single".
#3 Tell her that you hope that her boyfriend doesn't mind if he sits there.
When you see the girl you like sitting by herself drop this line on her when you sit down. It's an amazing icebreaker and you'll also find out right from the start if she's attached. It's a win-win.
#4 Ask her about her day.
When people talk about their day they often start to mention their partner. For most people, their interactions with their partner make up a big part of their day so it's a pretty good way to find out if someone is single or not just by asking how their day was. If you don't get enough information try asking how their week was. Eventually, they will tell you what you want to know even if they don't mean to.
#5 Try to pay for her drink.
This one can be a little harder to pull off but you can make it work if you do things right. You see, some ladies will accept your offer even if they are not single. What you have to do here is make eye contact and make your intentions crystal clear through body language. If you do it right, she will understand what you're really asking and she will tell you what you need to know. Either way, you're paying for a drink lol.
