6 Things You Must Never Mention On Your First Date
#1 Love
On your first date, you must never mention love. You have to sound realistic, and there is nothing realistic about love on your first date. Even they know that a few days of interaction will not cause love. You have to realize that if you mention love like this, you will creep them out because they will judge you for being desperate. If you have known each other for years, don't say it for quite some time. Take your time to confess things like love because they are supposed to be very special and even sacred for some people.
#2 Few days together
You must never mention a vacation together on your first date. When you go on your first date, the two of you are trying to understand each other better. You are trying to find out new things about yourself so you cannot just suggest to travel together on the first instance. These things happen months later. I have been the man I am supposed to marry for 8 months now and we have never went on a holiday like that. We are planning one but not until March next year. You tend to give things like these time. Even if they agree to it, you might bore each other on a trip of such sorts.
#3 Ex
There is an unwritten (not anymore) rule that you never talk about your ex on your first date. Yes, you can answer a few questions about dating a few people but you don't talk about them. That portrays you as a person who is still not over their ex. You cannot be such a person in front of them because you are obviously trying to set a good impression on them. Avoid mentioning your ex.
#4 Finances
You never mention finances on your first date. Do not ask them about their salary, bills or about their household finances. Don't mention yours either. If you talk about how rich and well off you are, you will either attract the wrong girl or you will present yourself as a show off. You have to present a subtle and a more down-to-earth self even if you are filthy rich.
#5 Family politics
You never a lot about your family or about your family politics on your first date. It is enough for them to know your parents and siblings. Don't talk about them constantly on your date. Similarly, don't mention how your sibling is evil or how your stepmother is horrible. This doesn't put a good impression on them.
#6 A future together
You do not mention a future together on your first date. If you are looking for something serious, you mention that but don't go overboard. You have to make sure that they don't get freaked out by you. Just mention that you are looking for someone sincere. If you want something casual then mention that too. It is good to share your true principles on the first date.
