9 Signs That Prove You Have The Coolest Boyfriend Ever

In this fast changing world, when most of us have learnt to quickly move on from a terrible heartbreak, and some of us have even started celebrating the breakups, it is still not clichéd to dream about a perfect partner. With changing times, though the foundation of a strong relationship is still the same – an amalgamation of trust, love, and respect, modern relationships have chucked the stereotypical rule-book of relationships, which had pre-defined rules for the boys, and for the girls. There is no doubt that earlier the success ratio of the relationships was way too high. But, to be fair, most of those relationships were mere adjustments, with no space, or breather, or support, especially for the fairer sex.

Introduction

In modern relationships, most of the partners treat each other equally. We have understood that there might not be a perfect partner. We all have flaws, and it is unreasonable to expect a perfect, totally flawless partner. But if we have someone who not only loves us, but understands us, supports us, let's us do what we want to do, and guides us like a best friend, if we are wrong, then we are into a beautiful relationship. Moreover, if you belong to the fairer sex, and if you have a boyfriend, who may not be perfect, may have some flaws, but he loves you like a girlfriend, treats you like a princess, and supports you like a best friend, then he is indeed the best man for you.

In this article, we present you 9 signs, which prove that your boyfriend is indeed the coolest boyfriend ever.

#1 He Listens To You

This is the quality, which is missing in most of the guys. Consider yourself immensely lucky if your boyfriend not just listens to your thoughts, your dreams, your sorrows, your pain, but also patiently digests your nagging and incessant ranting.

#2 He Doesn’t Nag About Your Ex

Almost all guys are possessive about their girlfriends. But, not all of them can maturely handle the topics related to their girlfriend's past. If your boyfriend understands and believes that your past is now over, and you are truly with him, and he doesn't react awkwardly, if, by chance, you mention something related to your past, then he is surely the coolest boyfriend you can think of.

#3 You Feel Safe With Him

By âÂ€Â˜Safe', we don't mean he will just physically protect you, but you feel emotionally, mentally, and financially safe with him. And, by âÂ€Â˜financially', we don't mean your boyfriend needs to empty his entire wallet on you, nor are you asking for it. What we mean is your boyfriend not only gives you freedom, but also a sense of security that if needed you don't have to depend on anyone else, but him.

#4 He Patches Up Quickly

Fights, arguments and disagreements happen. But what matters is how quickly the fights are forgotten and things are patched up. If your boyfriend keeps his ego aside, and patches up with you, without caring about whose fault it was, then he is certainly the coolest.

#5 He Supports You

He is not the one who asks you to forgo your dreams. In fact, he pushes and motivates you to achieve them. When you are down, upset and totally broken, he empathizes with you, wipes your tears, and makes you smile. He is there when you need a best friend. He is there when you need a boyfriend.

#6 He Gives You Space

He is okay if you are planning an all-girls party. He doesn't complain if you want some privacy. He doesn't check your Whatsapp messages. He trusts you completely and respects your personal space. If âÂ€Â˜he' is your boyfriend, don't let him go.

#7 He Finds Your Flaws Loveable

If you have a babyish side, he enjoys it, and becomes a baby with you, and you both do stupid things. If you have flaws, which everyone has, he accepts them, and even loves you for them. He understands that he too has his own negatives, and he ignores your flaws, and focuses on making a flawless relationship.

#8 He Makes You A Part Of His Decisions

Whatever decision he takes, no matter how small or big, he makes you a part of it. He talks to you about it, takes your suggestion and opinion, and also considers how his decision will affect you and your relationship.

#9 He Is Not A Clichéd Boyfriend

He is not the one who will wait for the Valentine's Day to buy a big bunch of red roses for you. Nor will he just wait for your birthday to do something special for you. He doesn't need any reason to celebrate your togetherness with him. For him, any such moment when you are with him, is a special moment, and he relishes all such moments of togetherness.