#1 You’re Confident In Your Sexuality And Expectations
The only way you're going to be able to truly enjoy your one-night stand is to be confident in your sexuality and expectations. You need to fully grasp that one-night stands very rarely are pathways to relationships and should be viewed for what they are: Casual sex. If you have confidence in that, then you're good to go.
#2 You Want To Experience Something New
Along with the sex aspect, one-night stands give us the opportunity to learn something new. Whether it's something we learn about ourselves or some new sex technique that never crossed our mind before, there really are lessons to be learned during a one-night stand.
#3 You Believe That Double Standards Are BS
For some reason we live in society where one-night stands are totally cool for men, but women who have them are just awful. I call bullsh*t on that. If you believe the same and know you can go into a one-night stand without feeling guilty âۥ guilt that's brought on by society's double standards, mind you âۥ then do your thing.
#4 You’re Getting Out Of A Relationship And Need A Distraction
When you're just getting out of relationship a one-night stand can offer a handful of solutions. For starters, it's a great distraction to the turmoil that's probably going on in your head and heart. Studies have even proven that casual sex after a breakup is a natural coping mechanism, so if you're comfortable and have clear expectations about this hookup then why the hell not?
#5 You Don’t Want To Emotionally Invest In Anyone Right Now
Another big sign that you should have a one-night stand is that you're just not into investing any time into anything that lasts more than a few hours at this point in your life. Whether it's because of your career or the fact that you've been burned before, if you don't have it in you but still want to have sex, then a one-night stand is the best route.
#6 You Think Anonymity Is Hot
For some people, familiarity is an important aspect to sex and those people probably won't enjoy a one-night stand with a stranger. On the other hand, some people don't need that at a. A friend of mine once a met a guy at a Halloween party where she was a cowgirl and he âۥ wait for it âۥ was a cowboy! They didn't tell each other their names, talked all night, she didn't disclose a single fact about herself, then took him home. The whole night she got to be someone else and it was really exciting for her. It's hot to completely escape your real life, disappear into anonymity, and have sex with a delicious stranger.
#7 You Think The ‘Walk Of Shame’ Is Actually The ‘Walk Of Awesome’
Um, because it is! Even before Amber Rose redefined the "walk of shame" with her video, everyone, one-night stand fans or not, should have been able to attest that it's actually the "walk of awesome."
#8 You Need A Break From Your Vibrator
As much as I love my vibrator, sometimes, to quote Carrie Bradshaw, "I need to feel the weight of a man on me." It's in those cases, that a one-night stand comes in handy. You get that weight of another human being. (Although the orgasm factor isn't exactly a guarantee.)
#9 You Just Want To Get Laid
Sometimes you just want to have a meaningless f*ck-fest and want that post-sex glow âۥ do you really need another sign as to why you should be hooking with a stranger in the next 30 minutes?
