9 Ways To Deal With Premature Ejaculation!

Introduction

Getting a little too excited during sex happens to all of us. When it comes to us girls, the things that usually happen are we bang our teeth into bae's or we totally forget that that headboard is there. Ouch. At worst, we might rub his peen just a little too hard. They're things that are embarrassing and a little painful, but they usually don't result in sex coming to a full stop. When bae gets a little too riled up, the brakes can get put on.

That's right people, I'm talking about premature ejaculation. And it's probably the second least thing any guy wants to talk about after erectile dysfunction. Dudes may not like talking about it, but it does happen. And we're not blaming them, either. If we had the same organs as bae, we would probably be spilling our loads early a lot of the time, too. It isn't that difficult to get all hot and bothered during sexy times.

While we totally get that premature ejaculation happens, one thing that us and the guys can agree on is that we'd like them to last as long as possible. When it comes to making your SO last, it's as important to discuss things in the right way as it is to master the right technique. Here's how to deal with premature ejaculation without making things super weird between you and bae.

#1 Don't Get Mad

Getting frustrated when bae ejaculates a little early isn't going to help the situation. He knows what he did. No, you still can't get mad if he does it over your legs or on your clean sheets. Don't think about sighing audibly, either. Just count to five in your head before you do or say anything.

#3 Access The Foreplay Situation

Are you and your SO having a really intense foreplay session before you actually get to putting the P in the V? If so, you can see why bae is having trouble lasting. It might be worth cutting down on the foreplay slightly or trying other techniques out to see if that helps him last.

#4 Don't Make It Into A Problem

If this is the first time this has happened, don't sweat it. If it's a reoccurring thing, yeah, it's kinda a problem, but it's something that you can overcome. Just be mindful when you're taking to bae that you don't refer to it as a *problem.*

#5 Cut Him Some Slack

You might have gotten this idea that sex is supposed to last for hours at a time thanks to movies. Not so. Even on good days, it's still in the minute category. Plus, remember that the people who last longer often have more experience. Bae is probably still new to this and discovering what works for his body and what doesn't.

#6 Don't Compare Him To Other Dudes

The last thing that any guy wants to hear when we're giving sex points is how much better another guy is. It isn't going to help or motivate him; it's just going to make him feel down about himself. Approach the situation in another way.

#7 Avoid Making The Situation Funny

Bae might be feeling a little sensitive so trying to laugh it off as no big deal might not be the best way to go. He could take your laughter as an insult and the last thing anyone wants in this situation is a hurt bae.

#8 Make It About You And Your SO

When it comes to making bae last, you want to make it clear that you're as much a part of this as him. When you talk about sex, try use *we* instead of *you.* Talking solely about bae can sometimes make it seem accusatory so keep it to a minimum.

#9 Encourage Communication During Sex

Some people find talking during sex weird, while others are all for it. In this situation, it helps if you and bae talk throughout your session. That way if your SO reveals that he's getting close, you can try switching things up to make him last longer. One of the easiest ways is to switch positions.

#10 Keep It Simple

Don't over complicate the situation by trying to bring in creams and toys that will help him last right away. Just focus on the two of you and your basic technique. It's important to get that figured out before you decide whether it's worth pursuing other options.