Cut The Crap! Here's What Women Really Want From Men!

#1 Notice the small things.

The devil is in the details guys. We want you to pay attention to the things we like. If we talk about a t.v. show or a certain actor, that's a big clue as to something that interests a woman. If we got a new dress, let us know you noticed! Take a minute and perceive what's going on.

#2 Put in the effort.

Make the time and put in some effort! If you're worth our time, than we're worth yours. If we don't feel like a priority than we're likely to walk.

#3 Confidence is hot, arrogance is NOT.

Here's the difference. Imagine you're at about to start playing a game of darts. If you pick up a dart and start talking crap because you hit a bulls-eye once upon a time ago, than that's arrogance. If you pick up a dart and start talking crap because you hit the bulls-eye 90% of the hundreds of times you've played, than that's confidence.

#4 Chivalry matters.

Yes, there is a difference between misogyny and chivalry and women know the difference. Don't be afraid to show you were raised with manners.

#5 Don’t be a man-baby.

We love to nurture and take care of our men, but we don't want our partner's to be kids. It's not sexy to be your boyfriend's mom. Grow up.

#6 Listen and take interest.

We want to talk about "it"! Whatever "it" may be (our day, the way someone talked to us, our favorite show) take some time to listen to us. We talk to you because we trust you to help us feel better, not because we're expecting you to miracle a solution from out of your ass. Let us vent to you.

#7 Be honest.

Honesty is the best policy. Don't be a coward.

#8 Take it slow (in bed).

Foreplay is necessary! Women take a lot longer than men to orgasm. Take the time to push the right buttons.

#9 Sometimes, we're just not in the mood.

More often than not if you're not in the mood, it has nothing to do with YOU. Stress, exhaustion, worry, they all effect our libido. It's nothing personal. It's just life.

#10 Help us.

There's nothing more irritating than a lazy man. Try helping us out with household chores, the school run and daily errands. It's just as much your responsibility as it is ours.

#11 Learn to say sorry.

Stop being so stubborn! If it's your fault and you're clearly in the wrong you owe it to us. Go on, say the magic word. Sorry can go a long way in relationships...

#12 Take care of yourself.

Brushed your teeth? Showered? Deodorized? Worked out? Put the effort into making sure you look nice too. It's not a one way street.

#13 Everyone needs "me time."

Everyone needs some space to hear themselves think. It's not rocket science. If we're being quiet and say nothing's wrong and we're relaxed and chill, than chances are that nothing is actually wrong. Chill out. Quiet happens and is a natural progression for relationships.

#14 Know yourself.

You need to know who you are before you can let another person get to know you. If you know what you want and are sure of yourself, there's a lot less bs and drama to deal with. Get in touch with yourself.

#15 Respect us.

Just think a second about all the things that we do and take a second to be grateful for us and show us that you actually value and care about us, the way our actions have showed you we care about you.