Dating Mistakes That Will Truly Scare Her Away

By Missy aka Tizzy in Life Style On 24th December 2017

Since the beginning of time, men have been looking for more ways to improve their dating and seduction techniques. These techniques used to be passed down from father to son. Nowadays, the internet is where most men turn to find ways to improve their love and sex life. The rules that we outline in this article will help increase your odds at getting that second date.

Don't get her pregnant

We know not all dates end in sex, but if it does, make sure that you strap up. Be sure to have a condom ready unless you have been in the relationship long term and are planning to have a child.

Being Too Possessive and Controlling

There is not a single girl in the world who finds an overly possessive or controlling guy sexy. If you display this kind of behavior, she is sure to tuck tail and run away as fast as she can.

Don't Be Needy

Being needy is almost as bad as being possessive and controlling. The biggest difference is that needy guys tend to be much nicer instead of being aggressive. Either way, it is not an attractive trait to have.

Sending Too Many Text Messages

While many of us spend our days texting away with our friends and loved ones, there is such thing as too much. When you text about every part of your day, it leaves nothing to talk about when you are physically together. Just because you can text someone as much as you want, does not mean that you should. Leave some conversations for face to face time.

The Timing of "I Love You"

The first time that you say, "I love you," should be a special moment, and timing is everything. Saying those words too soon or too late in the relationship can affect it dramatically. Also, make sure you react properly when your girl utters those words to you for the first time.

Being Obsessed with Sex

There is nothing wrong with a healthy sex life between partners. However, you should not push it to extremes. If you get the sense that your girl is not very interested in being intimate at sometimes, you should back off instead of making a big deal over it.

Don't Be Cheap

This picture pretty much sums it up. Just as much as needy guys turn women off so do cheap guys. This is especially true at the beginning of the relationship when you are just beginning to set boundaries. If you cannot afford a date, you can find other things to do that do not cost money. Don't offer to take her out to places that cost if you cannot afford to pay the bill.

Don't Wait for Her to Make the First Move

While many girls are okay with being the first one to make a move, you should be ready to make the first move as well. Some girls are still old-fashioned and might want to see how you will handle going for the first move.

Pay for the First Few Dates

While who should pay for the first few dates and whether the tab should is split is a controversial topic, a lot of dating experts say that there is no harm in paying for the first few dates yourself. After the third date, you can split the tab or come to some other arrangement with your girl.

Not Having a Plan

If you are taking her out on a date, you should have some sort of plan. Nothing is more uncomfortable than sitting in a car trying to decide together where you are going. Surprise her by having an entire night already planned.

Mistaking a Work Relationship for Attraction

This happens all too often. It is the same as a guy thinking that because the bartender is nice to him that it means she is into him. In most cases, the woman is trying to be kind and professional, but the guy is reading it all wrong which will turn things uncomfortable really quick.

Don't Go All In

If you are on your first date and the girl gives you a kiss and talks about a second date, just be happy to have that information. Do not go on gushing about how happy you are to have found her. Take things slow so that you do not chase her away before you even have a chance at a relationship.

Talking About Yourself and Not Being Present

Some guys tend to talk about themselves way too much. Or, they complain about their ex-girlfriends. Try to show the girl that you are different and be present when she is talking. Showing her that you want to know about her and you truly are listening is a major turn on.

Overanalyzing Things

Feedback is key to self-improvement. Analyzing situations is a good habit to form. You just have to be careful to not overanalyze things. You should especially not talk to a woman that you barely know about things you have analyzed regarding your relationship.

Don't Give Up Too Soon

Everyone nowadays lives busy lives. Just because your first attempt at snagging a date did not work does not mean you should give up. We are not saying to be a stalker either. Sometimes she might just really be busy and hopes, without saying, that you will ask her out again.

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