OP thought his roommate was being unnecessarily rude but the Redditors were quick to bash the soon-to-be dad. What do you think, was the roommate right for bluntly refusing to change his diet plan? Or was the OP right for asking him to not make certain meals so that his girlfriend don't get sick?
Guy Asks If He Is The Jerk Here For Asking Roommate To Avoid Cooking Certain Meals When Pregnant Girlfriend Visits As She Gets Nauseous
By
Sumaiya Ghani in
Relationships
On 29th December 2022
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One guy came to Reddit to ask the readers if he was the jerk for asking roommate to avoid cooking certain meals as girlfriend gets nauseous
The author of this reddit thread is about to become a father. The guy mentioned how his girlfriend is 4-months pregnant and oftens comes to visit him. The guy himself shares a room with another person, now the issue is that his roommate makes certain meals that make his girlfriend nauseous.
He exclaimed the entire situation and asked the readers' opinion on the matter
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The OP had asked his roommate to avoid cooking the meals his girlfriend gets nauseous from. But the roommate got offended and refused. The author is now confused and wants to know was he the jerk here?
The author also told the fellow redditors that he and his girlfriend has no plans to tie the knot yet. They haven't even figured out their living arrangements and our waiting for their baby's birth to figure that out.
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He also mentioned that his girlfriend currently lives with her parents and since he is on bad terms with them, he doesn't visit her place.
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The girl comes to visit him atleast four days a week and spends time in their joint home till the evening. Now this is the reason his roommate is not agreeing to disturbing his own schedule.
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The roommate says he doesn't owe them anything
The OP himself mentions how his roommate bluntly refused and told him he doesn't owe the couple anything. The roommate told that these meals are an important part of his diet, and since the girl spends too much time at their apartment already, so this means he should just stop making those meals altogether.
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The OP thinks his roommate's reaction was unnecessarily rude
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Now he wants the Redditors to navigate the situation and tell if he was the jerk here?
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The Redditors were quick to pour in their views regarding the complicated situation
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Someone suggested OP to come up with a plan now that he is a soon-to-be dad
People said that the roommate did right and that he is projecting his problems on him
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OP needs to get his own house if he wants to live life his way
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Someone reminded OP how his girlfriend doesn't pay whereas the roommate pays to live at that apartment
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Most of the Redditors bashed the OP and suggested him to figure out things before becoming a father
What do you think of this entire situation? Is the roommate being unnecessarily rude or is the OP acting unreasonable by asking the guy to change his entire diet plan for someone who doesn't even live there?
