I Let Men 'Test Drive' My Wife - It's Saved Our Marriage And Makes Me Realise What I Have

Couples have been opening up about taking part in an X-rated experiment to try and help save their marriages - and one man has compared it to 'test driving a car'

One husband, who proudly talks about his marriage, claims that the reason their relationship works so well is because he lets other men sleep with his wife.

He says it’s helped him appreciate her in a whole new way.

Watching her be intimate with others not only brings joy to the men involved, but strangely, it also deepens his admiration and gratitude for his wife.

The practice—often referred to as “hot wifing”—is growing in popularity among couples looking to rekindle their connection.

The couple believe it's helped save their marriage (stock photo) Getty Images

It usually involves the wife having sex with other men, often professionals like male porn actors or sex workers, while the husband watches.

One man even described it as similar to letting a buddy "test drive your car".

Most people might feel uncomfortable even thinking about their spouse being with someone else, let alone watching it happen.

But this bold new relationship experiment is challenging that discomfort.

More and more couples are signing up on apps that support non-monogamous arrangements in the hope of saving their love life before it's too late.

For Sienna and Logan, who have been part of the hot-wifing community for two years now, the experience has been positive.

The couples say it has helped to strengthen their relationships (stock photo) Getty Images

Logan explained it like this: "It's kind of like letting your friend test drive your car. He gets to see how well it rides. He's got to give it back, but it creates a sense of pride. You get a little taste of what my life is like."

According to Sienna, she told the Daily Mail that it felt "really cool" for Logan to see her enjoying herself with two attractive men, all while she simply "lives her best life".

Another couple, Alex and Rebecca, joined the hot-wifing scene as well.

Alex admitted that before meeting Rebecca, he had never really explored anything adventurous in the bedroom.

It gives them 'comfort and security' sleeping with other people (stock photo) Getty Images/iStockphoto

But once they started exploring this lifestyle together, he got to experience something he had only dreamed about—watching a woman with two other men.

Rebecca said this journey brought a "whole other level of comfort and security" to their connection.

"There's really nothing like being able to share that experience with someone you love and knowing that it doesn't diminish what we have. It actually made it a lot stronger. And it's weird to say, but I actually love him so much more because of it. Sex and love are two completely different things."

And some couples take things even further.

One of the more intense examples involved a woman named Danielle, who wore her wedding dress while sleeping with five other men.

Her husband Richard said that seeing his wife wear her "pristine wedding dress" while being with other men felt like a "building block" that added strength to their bond.

He said their relationship keeps evolving while he also gets a rush of "entertainment and adrenaline".