Indications That Your Girl Is Probably A Cheater

By Abdullah Sohrab Khan in Life Style On 14th August 2017

Love has always been an integral part of our lives, whether it is of our families, friends or our partners. The love of our partners is the one that is most cherished by us, though sometimes they are not that sincere are indeed cheating on us which can just tear one apart. Here we look at some signs that may indicate that your girl is probably a cheater

#1 A Big “No” For Doing It

Intimacy is an important part of a relationship, it is there in the nature. Since the start of the relationship one enjoys the intimacy, you get to know your partner like you have never known before. Surely, there is a lot more sex in the beginning of a relationship and even though after months or years there is still plenty of it even of not as much as there was in the start but every time that you meet your partner you can see the desire in her eyes, you can feel that she wants you. But then for some unlucky guys there come times when there partner does not seem so much interested in it, whenever you try to be close she would make up different excuses. Even when it happens you can sense that her mind is somewhere else. You can tell that she does not feel the need of you to fulfill her desires and that is because she is getting those needs and desires fulfilled from someone else. It is then when you need to take a stand and make sure find out what really is going on. Maybe she does not want to lose you while she has fling with another man but that is not the way it should be.

#2 Her Phone: Her Most Prized Possession

One of the most important rules when you are in a relationship is that there are to be no secrets kept from each other. Yes there are things of the past that you may not want to share and that is okay but things that you do when you're in a relationship are best shared when they happen so that they do no create a problem later on. Trust should be mutual. Laptops and phones are considered very personal devices, but when it comes to partners there should be no such secrets in your phones that you may want to hide from your girlfriend. You are cool with you girlfriend going through your phone's gallery, call history or text as you know you have nothing to hide. Then you start noticing that your girlfriend is suddenly beginning to be more possessive about her phone. She does not leave it lying around at home, she always keeps a password on, she even takes it with her to the toilet. Then she is always smirking when she gets texts and responds to them and never receives a call when you are around. These are all indications that she may be cheating on you so better figure out what really is going on.

#3 Way Too Interested In Your Friends

You know you can trust your girlfriend so you do not have a problem with introducing her to you male friends as you expect her to stay within limits and for a true girlfriend, her boyfriend is her everything and she would never be interested in any other guy too much no matter how good looking or hot he is. Though sometimes when you introduce her to your friend, she gets a little too interested in knowing more details about a certain guy and would never miss an opportunity to hang out with him. You may suspect that something is going on but sometimes you just think you're being delusional and drop the thought. But it often true that your gut feeling is indeed right. You girlfriend taking the initiative to plan with your friend or sending requests to them voluntarily may be a string enough indication that she may very well be cheating on you.

#4 Social Media Diva

We live in the age of social media, almost everyone is present on it. Many are very active on it while others not so much. It is normal if your girlfriend is active on social media, but is it really normal that your girlfriend has recently started posting very flaunting and seductive photos on her social media? She gets a lot of attention surely on those pictures from a lot of guys who may have always wanted her and some of them even leave vulgar comments on them but strangely enough she likes those comments. Rather than giving them a nice scolding, she gives them polite responses and thanks them. She also avoids posting anything related to you on her account. This then would be a good time to approach her and let her know how you feel about this, if she is indeed sincere she will correct herself, if not then you'll surely hear a lot words back from her.

#5 Yes, She’s Single

Is it true that your girlfriend still likes to keep her relationship status a single? You may think that this is not that big a deal, but maybe you should start paying a little more attention to it. A girl who loves her man truly would never shy away from claiming that you are her only love and that she is indeed committed to you infront of anyone. As you know that whenever someone wants to ask a girl out or need to see if she is single or not, they check her social media account. And if your girlfriend is a keeper, which i am sure she is, everyone who sees the single status would approach her, as nobody asks out a girl when he knows that she is already committed. Not only the status but keep an eye out for if she tells her peers that she is single, as i said earlier if she truly loves you she would gladly have people know that you are the person she is with.

#6 She Is A Perfect Gold Digger

A woman that truly loves her boyfriend would never let him spend lavishly on her exuberant lifestyle, more importantly she would never ask her man to buy her so many different things than she probably does not even need. If she really looks forward to spending her live with you, she would instead encourage you to save for the future, and she herself will try to save as well rather than treating you as a wallet all the time. Maybe that is the reason that she started the relationship in the first place as she had never seen your wallet empty and now she is used to having your credit card to spend on anything that she likes. She probably does not even love you, she loves the money instead. It would be easy to check if she loves you or the money by just limiting her spending a little. Say you are going through a rough patch and do not have enough to spend on things that are not a necessity now. That way you'll find out whether she loves you or your money.

#7 The Eyes Never Lie

The body never lies, remember that. When you grow fond of someone and have spent a lot of time with her you can tell a lot about her just by her gestures. You can tell whether she is lying of telling the truth just by analyzing her body language. So, "listen" and "observe" to her words and her body language. Do they match? Does she think too much before answering to questions about her whereabouts? Does she fail to make eye contact when answering those questions? You need to keep an eye for these things as she may say "I Love You", but whether she meant it or not, you can only figure that out by looking at her eyes. It's all in the eyes when it comes to lying. So whenever you think that her eyes and her gestures do not match make sure that you cross check her answers.

#8 No Regrets For The Past

Even though when you start relationships, you tend keep the past in the past and do not discuss it as it may bring sourness into the current relationship. But you surely have discussed the past relationships a couple of times, Why did she break up with her previous boyfriends? Have you ever asked this question? YOu probably have and it is very important to carefully evaluate her responses. Does she have any regrets about her previous relationships or how they ended. Did she seem like she did not care about those relationships? This is important as cheaters do not have any regrets about their past relationships. They might've been caught red handed and thus the relationship ended. She will make sure that you never get to meet the people who are aware of her bitter past. If she met you while she was in a relationship with someone else, there is no guarantee that she would not go for someone else while she is with you. So make sure you figure out her past.

#9 She’s Not Ready For Marriage

Ever since you have been in the relationship with your girlfriend you cannot wait to get married. Usually it is the girls who are excited about wedding plans and cannot wait to get settled with the man that they love but apparently your girl seems different. She ignores the topic of wedding all together when you try to being it up. She leaves you witha fake smile when you ask her what she thinks about you two getting married. These are signs that you should not take lightly, girls that do really love you and are sure to have you with them for the rest of their life do not avoid the topics of marriage. They will get excited about it, they will discuss them with you even if they are not yet ready to get married as they have plan for their career right now but they still sit down with you plan it together. But the cheaters who are not in it for the long hail and do not know if they will stick around for months let alone years then they will avoid this topic so make sure you know which women are you in a relationship with.

#10 “Where Are You Darling?”

Nobody wants to be caught cheating, girls will make sure that they are well aware of your whereabouts and plan before they secretly go out with someone else. She will make sure that she calls you before going out asking, "Where are you honey"? Rest assure that this is not inorder to ask of you well being but rather making sure she does not get caught while she is out cheating with another guy. She being interested in your business plan and checking in every now and then may also be a reason for your to suspect something, as how many times have we witnessed that girls bring their secret boyfriends home when their man is away. So keep eyes and years open and connect the dots.

#11 Please Don’t Come See Me Again, I’m Busy

Have you ever noticed that your girlfriend has started to appear very busy recently? When ever you try to call her she does not pick up the call or claims that she is very busy at that times? It's like she is not the same person anymore and she does not seem to care about you either. She only calls you whenever she needs something or has run into a problem. This is really painful for a person, it slowly starts to eat you from the inside, nobody deserves to be treated this way. Make sure you confront her and ask her what the real deal is, if there is someone else in her real life she should tell you about him so this thing could be dealt with in a civilized manner.

#12 Always Dressed To Impressed

Have you started noticing that recently your girlfriend is always dressed as if she is going out on a fancy dinner? Or she is spending too much on makeup and personal care though you never get to have her around when she wears those fancy dresses or makeup? It may be an indication that she is doing all that for someone else. Maybe the idea to follow her one of those days to find out who she is meeting with may sound a little outrageous but sometimes it needs to be done for your own good.

#13 Too Much Sugar Can Ruin A Cup Of Tea

Even though that your girlfriend may be cheating on you which is kind of heartless on her behalf, she did still love you at one time and probably still has a soft spot for you so she may feel guilty for cheating on you. Though she still cannot stop cheating on you but to make up for that guilt somehow by showering you with expensive gifts or nights of passion frequently though you can tell she does not mean it. She just does not want ot hurt you badly but her heart has moved on, this also is an indication so better watch out when she is being extra nice.

#14 A Guilty Conscience

A person who cheats will always have it on her mind that her partner does not suspect anything that may indicate that she is cheating. Therefore she will avoid movies or TV shows in which one of the partner is cheating and whenever you discuss about someone who was caught cheating she will start kind of sweating. Ask her opinions about such things and see what her responses are. If she is cheating she will maybe try to defend the cheater or get really nervous when answering. Be careful in case you witness these signs.

#15 Ready For The Worst?

Let's say you have noticed most of these things in your girlfriend, but you are not ready to let her go. You love her and ready to forgive her, but does she want to be forgiven or is she waiting for an excuse to end things. As sooner or later she will let you know what is going on or you will find out one way or the other. Then it depends on how you handle it, will you be ready to forgive her for it and start fresh? Or will you jsut let her go. So are you ready for the worst?

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