Is He Here To Stay Or On The Way Out?

#1 Decoding The Mystery.

Men claim that a women's mind is a mystery for them. The truth is, it's the same for women as well: they can never really know what men want. Women often find themselves asking: is he serious about us? Although men rarely let women in on a secret like this, there are some signs that could give them away.

#2 He Balances His Time With And Without You.

Don't expect that he's just going to drop his friends because he feels your the one. One person can't be everything to a person. He's still going to go out and hang with "the guys," but guess what! He's going to start bringing you along, introducing you to them and taking you to his favorite places. Now don't get the idea that you're going ALL the time. He still needs time to his besties too. Bromances are seriously clingy at times. Yet, he will start to prefer time with you and start taking the steps to get it.

#3 When Things Get Hectic.

So he was out with the boys last night and didn't hear your text or he was at work and he missed your call. How he behaves after is a big sign as to his intentions. The committed man will contact you back and apologize. He feels genuinely bad he's missed the connection.

#4 He's Willing To Do Your "Things," Too.

Remember how he'll start opening up and sharing his favorite places and people with you? Well, he's going to start delving into yours also. The committed man is curious about what you like and don't like and tries to make you happy. He'll ask about the small things you had brought up previously and try to spend time in places and doing what you like also.

#5 Your First Volunteer.

Bringing in the groceries, grabbing that box, helping you move. Your guy will offer to help or feel bad if he's not able to do so for you. He's always there and Captain Reliable.

#6 "Me" Turns Into "We"

At some point in committed relationships, making future plans turns into an understood joint venture. It's starts subtly in the speech. Instead of "I'm going to the movies" it's now "What do we want to see at the movies." They start including you in their future plans, like that wedding that's happening in two months or that party in two weeks. Schedules are checked to see what's happening that week.

#7 Your Career Matters, Too.

Part of planning for the long haul is making sure you're financially set as well as happy in your career. There will be inquiries into what you want to do in the future, where your job is heading, and what sort of plans and goals can help you get there.

#8 They Still Have Fun With You.

Sure things have died down a bit, but your chill nights are still relaxed and fun. It's obvious that your relaxing to be around and comforting as well as fun.

#9 Cuddle Time

In the beginning, touching almost always lead to stripping each other down. It was almost like you couldn't get enough of each other. Now he touches and makes contact just for contact's sake. Casual contact have become the norm.

#10 He Lets You In.

The biggest tell that he's committed to you is that he tells you everything, including how he feels about you. You're his confidante and you know it all.

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