J-Lo has been getting very personal on her tour lately
Jennifer Lopez Drops Shocking Bedroom Confession On Stage As Divorce From Ben Affleck Makes Headlines
Jennifer Lopez didn’t hold back at all when she gave fans an unexpected look into her personal life — especially when it comes to what she likes in the bedroom — right in the middle of her live show.
The star, who’s getting close to turning 56, seems to be channeling what many are calling some serious ‘scorned woman energy’ on her latest album. It’s believed that her music reflects what she’s been going through following her reported split from Ben Affleck.
If you somehow missed it, J-Lo and Affleck also known by fans as ‘Bennifer’ were once Hollywood’s favorite couple. Their romance goes all the way back to 2002, when they got engaged and quickly became a media sensation.
But things didn’t go as planned. Just two years into their relationship, they called off the wedding and broke up.
Lopez later married Marc Anthony and became a mom to twins, Emme and Max, who are now 17 years old. The couple eventually parted ways and divorced in 2011.
As for Affleck, he tied the knot with Jennifer Garner — his co-star from Daredevil in 2005. They share three children together: Violet, 19, Fin, 16, and Samuel, 13. Their marriage lasted ten years before they also went their separate ways.

Years later, the spark reignited. In 2021, J-Lo and Affleck gave their love another shot, and this time they took it all the way getting married not just once, but twice. First in Las Vegas and then again in Georgia with a more formal celebration.
But their reunion didn’t last either. On what should have been a special day—their second wedding anniversary Lopez reportedly filed for divorce.
Since then, J-Lo has been pretty open, and she’s no longer sugarcoating things. Onstage, it seems like she’s not afraid to drop subtle and not-so-subtle hints about how she really feels.
During a show in Pontevedra, Spain, as part of her European tour, she introduced her new track, 'Wreckage of You'. The lyrics seem to tell a story about freeing herself from a relationship that wasn’t working. No names were mentioned, but fans quickly connected the dots.

Later on, while performing at the Lucca Summer Festival in Italy, Lopez went even further. She introduced another new song called 'Up All Night', but it wasn’t just the music that grabbed attention.
Before the track began, she decided to share something a little unexpected and definitely very personal. She gave the audience a glimpse into her sex life now that she’s single again.
She said: "I have to be honest with you, sometimes I get in different moods at night. I don't know about you but I do, and sometimes I like it hard."
"Other days, I am feeling a little romantic. You put on candles and soft music. On those days, I like it real slow." she continued. "But there's other days . . . maybe because it's a new kind of time for me, maybe because it's summertime and it's hot outside, I feel a little more naughty."
The crowd couldn’t hold back their cheers and screams. Lopez laughed in response and jokingly asked: "You ever get that feeling?"
"Where you feel like being naughty? On those days, I like it real fast."

Her steamy onstage comments aren’t the only thing turning heads. Sources close to the singer told The Sun that her new songs were shaped by the ups and downs she faced during her relationship with Ben.
"Wreckage Of You was so specifically about Ben, and Up All Night points to where Jennifer is at in her life right now. This is a whole new era for Jennifer and she isn't going to be holding back." the insider shared, pointing to tracks that reflect both heartbreak and personal growth.
Meanwhile, Ben Affleck has chosen to stay mostly quiet. The only time he commented was back in March, when he reportedly said the whole split had been 'embarrassing'.
As for J-Lo, she seems to be steering her tour in a different direction. She’s cut out any of the traditional love ballads and replaced them with songs that feel more defiant and bold.
"I wanted to do the songs that were like, 'Get out of here! I hate you!'." she explained. "I'm just kidding. No, I'm not..."