Sexuality is a lot more fluid than it was back in the day. The younger generations are a lot more comfortable with exploring their sexual identities. However, a lack of clear boundaries in a relationship can cause a lot of resentment, hurt, and betrayal. A cheating partner is enough to break anyone's heart. It is especially hurtful if you are in a same-sex relationship and cheat with someone of the opposite sex.
Lesbians Tell What Happened When They Cheated On Their Partners With A Man
By
Missy aka Tizzy in
Confessions
On 8th January 2018
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Strictly gay
What does it say about a person's sexuality if they are strictly gay but cheat with someone of the opposite sex? It does not really matter what it means. Cheating is cheating, and it does not matter what the sex is of the person whom you cheated with. but, unless a couple identifies themselves as bisexual, things can get muddy when a partner decided to experiment with heterosexuality. Check out how these lesbians felt after cheating with a man.
Discovering Bisexuality
It is totally possible for someone to not be sure about their sexuality. You do have to be sure that your partner understands how you feel before you decide to explore with someone else.
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Discovering Men
If you cannot decide whether you want to be with a man or a woman, you should stay away from monogamous relationships. This will cut down anyone getting their feelings hurt.
We Were On A Break
This one is a bit of a gray area. If you are on a break and plan to be with other people, perhaps you should talk to the other person and be sure you are both on the same page.
Cheating Hurts. Period.
We do not know if she dumped her because she cheated with a man or because the man was married. Hopefully, it was both. It is bad enough to be a cheater, but being a homewrecker is a lot worse.
The “Lesbian”
Defining your sexuality is very important. It is okay if you are not sure if you are a full lesbian, but you should definitely let your partner know if you are unsure.
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Way To Make Things Complicated
Was the sex really worth it? This is a recipe for drama. It can be cause for an uncomfortable workplace and that means you are messing with people's money and livelihoods.
Questioning
If this is you, then you should probably take some time to reflect on your sexuality. You might enjoy the comfort of being with a woman, but if you get off having sex with a man, you are not a lesbian.
Boundaries
Setting proper boundaries plays a very important role in any relationship.
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Time For Some Honesty
If you cannot be honest with your partner, at least be honest with yourself. If this scenario fits you, then you are definitely not a full-blown lesbian.
No Regrets
Well, at least she is being honest with herself. The next scenario is something that a lot of people can relate to.
The Triangle
Almost everyone has been put in a situation where they have had to decide between two people. Usually, this happens when you are not in a committed relationship with either person.
Turning a new leaf?
Sounds like she is running away from the situation. If you have been cheated on, it is usually best to break up and move on. You are worth having someone to love you wholly.
Cheating Is Cheating Regardless Of Who It’s With
It seems like this person knows that.
Her First…
And it might not be her last. If you liked it that much, you are likely bisexual and not a lesbian at all.
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Honesty Is The Best Policy
It is best to be open and honest about your sexuality from the start of any relationship. If your partner cannot respect your choices, then they are obviously not the one for you.
Serious Consequences
If you are going to be so inconsiderate of your partner and cheat on them, then at least use protection. Not only is pregnancy something that can happen, STDs are a real consequence as well. You not only put yourself at risk but your partner as well.
Toxic Relationships
Sometimes it is best to find out that your partner is not good for you. Moving on is the best thing that you can do when you find yourself in this kind of situation.
Making A Realization
Figuring yourself out should not have to hurt other people. If you feel the need to stray, you should leave your relationship first.
Sexual Needs VS Emotional Needs
If there is something that you enjoy in bed that you are not getting from your partner, talk to them. Communication is key to a happy and healthy sexual relationship.
Self Discovery
But, you are still cheating. There is no excuse for it.
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This video will provide you with some insight on why lesbians cheat.
There is no doubt that we should be able to have sex with whoever we would like to have sex whether they be male or female. However, cheating is never okay. If you are thinking about straying from your relationship, you should have a talk with your partner. Otherwise, there will be a whole lot of hurt. If you are unhappy, break up. Do not be selfish and cruel by cheating.