Mother’s Stretch Marks Go Viral After Body-Shamers Say She Has ‘Too Many Children’

Posted by Sughra Hafeez in Life Style On 24th March 2018

A young mother who gave birth to quadruplets share photos of the stretch marks on social media but her post was attacked by trolls.


Empower women

Doreen Ching, 23, who lives in Malaysia gave birth to quadruplets. She shared her post-quadruplets stomach pictures on social media to empower women who are going through the same thing.


Her childerns

Her beautiful four children Jensen, Jayden, Jasper, and Jazreel!


She posts her picture on facebook along with the caption:

"I received a lot of mummies’ inquiries asking me how to eliminate the scars as you’re gonna be scared… and that’s the price, even if you have money.

There’s no way to get rid of it, and it’s like, every day, every day, every day.

Only 21 at the time, I wondered how I would be able to accept my stomach looking like this for the rest of my life.

The first thing I did when I got out of the delivery room was to look at my stomach and my tears came out.

I was cracked up to a very serious kind of rupture and skin tissue was damaged."


Her post was attacked by trolls

Her post went viral and comments were full of mocking and body shaming calling her 'ugly' and 'disgusting'.

生了四胞胎的肚子👦🏻👦🏻👦🏻👧🏻 我收到很多妈咪的询问 询问我怎样消除妊辰纹这回事 我只能说我的肚子 照片你看不出 但是你近看你会吓死....这就是代价 就算你有钱也没办法消除的痕迹 这样跟就是一辈子 天天就是看着 天天就是摸着 怀孕的时候 身边都人都安慰我说 生了过后会浅的 我心想我才21岁那个肚子永远都这样我该怎样好?结果我出产房的第一件事 就是看着自己的肚子 眼泪直接就要标出来 我的是裂到很严重的那种裂 几乎皮肤组织都是损坏的 我想过镭射 但是镭射根本都不会起任何的作用 天天看着 天天纠结着 对一个很美的我 到今天还是一直没办法去接受 都生了两年多了 干嘛都是一样 就是满满的自卑感 我觉得全世界最不好做的就是妈妈这个职业了 到底是为了什么要那么辛苦怀孕? 到底是为了什么要那么辛苦生孩子? 为什么这种苦都要女人受啊? 为什么生孩子不要是男人? Toh Yang Ming 你还我肚子😫😫😫 #quadruplets

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In response to the criticism she wrote:

"Many people posted mean comments saying it was 'disgusting' and 'ugly' and they wanted to vomit. To them I want to say, do you respect women? Please respect the women of this world, such as your mother and your wife, who give birth and still work."


"My stomach doesn’t matter"

"I can still wear a bikini at home. I can only be as perfect as I can be"


Praised for shutting down the trolls

She was praised by both men and women for shutting down the trolls.


Badges of honor

"Doreen!!! These are your badges of honor!! You have made the ultimate love sacrifice and brought 4 beautiful little souls into existence! I can see you are an INCREDIBLE MOTHER!! You are beautiful INSIDE and OUTSIDE!!! If you should ever choose to, a doctor can remove those stretch marks for you. However, the UGLY (inside and out) people that are rude, heartless, hateful, miserable people that said ANYTHING negative....well, they are out of luck!! Because there is NOTHING that ANY doctor can do for them!!! There is NOTHING that can be done to remove the kind of UGLY they are!!! They will ALWAYS be UGLY!!! Delete their nasty negative comments and feel only the love and respect that the rest of us have for you!!"


Little miracles in this life

Those aren't marks of ugliness those are marks that attest that you are an amazing woman who sacrifices her beauty to bring little miracles in this life. I'm so proud of you and all the moms in this world


You're brave

"Your skin looks like gold and you can have it tattooed on by a tattoo artist specialized in scaring if it's too unbearable for you. You're brave. I was very moved by your story and I'm a 100% with you guys! 4 kids is a lot of hard work!!! "


Stretch marks will be a very small price to have paid

"One-day wrinkles will cover your entire body and the beauty will fade from your face but those children will love you and take care of you to the very end and you will see that those stretch marks will be a very small price to have paid. Be proud of being their mother and all that it means. You are still so beautiful"

The scars are worth it

"Were this multiple births or single? I have birthed 6 kids and have pretty nasty stretch marks. Don't let anyone tell you that you're ugly or disgusting. Being a mother is a very beautiful thing and we shouldn't ever be put down for bearing the scars of bringing life into this world. You have adorable babies too so I am sure the scars are worth it."


Shame on those who say anything negative

"Still beautiful momma! Thank you for posting! I have a stomach very similar from having 2 single births. I know your struggle! Women around the world appreciate a woman with stretch marks these days! Shame on those who say anything negative! Respect the women of this world baring children, if it wasn’t for us, how would babies get here."

They're the most bad ass tattoo

"I have the same marks from ONE beautiful little baby. Huge garish "mauled by a tiger" marks. they're the most bad ass tattoo ill ever wear."

Marks of love

"A small sacrifice to became a mother. My mom has it too, she doesn't care about that, also me, ma lil bro, and ma father didn't complain. Its a mark between life and death, its a mark of love"


This mom clearly isn't letting the haters get her down.