Reasons Why You Should Not Date The Insecure Guy

Insecure men are actually quite adept at attracting the perfect “victim.” And much of this goes back to the theory of the Law of Attraction which states that “like attracts like.” In otherwords, similar energies are, by nature, naturally attracted and drawn to one another. Which means that your insecurities, can actually be drawing insecure men back towards you.

#1 They don't value love

Loving another person is possible only when you are narcissistic to a certain level. We aren’t asking you to be vain but loving yourself is the first step towards loving another person. But while dating an insecure guy you’ll understand that love is just a representation from them. They are low on self-esteem and for that reason they don’t themselves the way they are.

#2 Their moods are dependent of your moods

Dating insecure men can be extremely difficult because their life revolves around you. That can be mainly attributed to the fact that they are incapable of building meaningful relationships. Their moods are dependent of your moods. If you’re happy/sad, he’ll be happy/sad. But partners should lift each other’s moods, instead of becoming a part of it.

#3 They are jealous type

#4 They just want everything to be perfect

nsecure guys often come with issues. They assume that you’re the answer to all their problems. And when you don’t meet their insane standards they will start moving away, looking for new people who will listen to their woes. They expect things to fall into place without their interference.

#5 They are hypocrites

Most of the times the insecure guy’s audio wont be in sync with their video. They are the biggest hypocrites you’ll ever meet. They manipulate you into thinking that they aren’t at fault. A valuable dating advice for women would be not to date an insecure guy.

This is why you shouldn't date a insecure guy.

Categories