Just because you are not in a relationship at the moment does not mean that you can't have an active sex life. Many women have very successful one night stands. The key is to be safe and look out for yourself, while also having a good time. There are several steps you can take to have an enjoyable one night stand.
Rules You Must Follow For A Successful One Night Stand
#1 Make Sure You're Safe
While most think you can't catch anything or get pregnant from a one night stand...YOU CAN! Protection is the most important part of having fun with a random. It doesn't matter if you're on PREP, birth control or just got tested, you never know what the other person is hiding!
#2 Ask The Right Questions
You might wanna know what they do for a living, when their last relationship was and if they hookup often. It's not an interview, but knowing basic information is key to knowing if they're the right person for a night of fun. You'll feel much more comfortable at least knowing their last name...
#3 Experiment Is Good
Hooking up is the best time to experiment with things you've always wanted to try. Why not play out your deepest fantasy or use props that others would be scared to use. Chains and whips just might come out if the moment is right!
#4 Never Overstay Your Welcome
While you don't want to do the walk of shame, you definitely don't wanna overstay your welcome at their house. Things can get awkward when they wake up for work, and you're still snoring in their bed. Get up and get out!
#5 Never Expect Too Much
Never get attached in any way, because they're probably not looking for a relationship. The one-night stand will never turn into a real boo, so just get that out of your mind. A hookup is meant to be meaningless and fun, so stop putting pressure on it!
#6 They're Not Your Bae
There is to be no nagging, fighting or complaining while you're hooking up, because they are not your significant other! Just have sex and move on, because it's easier that way!
