Signs That Prove She's A Little Girl, Not A Grown Woman
By
Michael Avery in
Life Style
On 8th November 2016
It has come to my attention that many women believe “real men” do not exist anymore. As if all of the “good guys” are gone, and the hashtag “#foreveralone” will define their lives indefinitely. The same women that make these claims are often the same women who are oblivious to those “good guys” that are all around them. The point of my rant is that I’m here to say that we do exist! We’re just in hiding.
We’re hiding from all of those women that believe twerking is a legitimate form of dancing, those that feel like cheating is acceptable (assuming no one finds out), and those that firmly believe not telling the whole truth isn’t lying. As a guy, it is easy to be roped into dating someone that doesn’t quite fit your idea of what an “ideal mate” might be. While it has been my misfortune to date some “unique” women, I have learned a great deal from my experiences. The following list is meant to inform, not to hate on, call out, or even upset anyone; this is simply an observational list of what I’ve seen while dating. Enjoy.
She's fixated on ex-boyfriends.
If she's still hung up on an ex, she's absolutely still a girl.
She wants you there for her but isn't there for you.
Relationships are about supporting one another. If she's not there for you but expects you to be there for her, she's really immature.
She claims to have a "complicated" life.
If she's constantly complaining about stress but still goes out multiple times each week and has her parents pay some of her bills, she's a girl.
She lies or cheats.
This one really goes without saying.
She won't make decisions without consulting her father.
If she needs help being an adult, she's still a child.
She's jealous of your female friends.
Men and women have friends of the opposite sex. If she gets jealous of that, she's still a girl.
She has taste that she can't afford.
It's alright to love the finer things in life, if you can afford them. If she's stretching her budget to buy unnecessary things, she's still a girl.
She won't stay on topic during difficult conversations.
Every couples has fights or has difficult times. If she goes off the rail during these discussions or fights, she's probably still a child.
She's just drifting through life.
If she doesn't have a plan for her future, she's not yet a woman.
She's constantly worried about missing out.
If she gets anxious on your date nights out because her girls are at the club, you're not dating a woman.