Signs That You're Not As Good In The Sack As You Think You Are. In Other Words, You Suck.

Some people are just bad in bed. It's just one of those things in life that you have to deal with. If you do any of these things in bed you are probably not a very good lover but fear not, we will also provide you with tips to help improve your weak areas to make you into the sex god or goddess that you always knew you could be.

#1 You think too much when it comes to sex.

Sex is something that is incredibly easy, so stop getting yourself all worked up over it. It's fun for all involved. This is never truer than when both partners are at ease. Relax and stop thinking so hard. Just let it come to you.

#2 You don't speak up.

In sex, just like in every other part of life, communication is important. Being vocal helps let your partner know what's working for you and what's not. It's no fun if you're doing something that you don't enjoy so speak up and tell your partner instead of waiting until its over. You will be surprised by how much things will improve with just a little talking.

#3 You think you have to orgasm in order for it to be good.

It's impossible to orgasm every time you have sex. Sometimes it's just not in the cards and there isn't anything you can do to change that. Instead, you should focus on enjoying the act. If you don't get yours, oh well, there will always be other opportunities.

#4 You're very prudish.

It's almost 2018, stop worrying about how socially unacceptable it is to talk about sex. Sex is as much a part of our everyday lives now as the internet. It doesn't benefit you to be bashful so don't be that way. Being a prude can make you feel guilty about getting it on and ruin your experience. That's not something that anyone wants.

#5 You watch adult films for inspiration.

Adult films set you up for failure. They promote the idea that sex is easy to get without much effort and that crazy moves are so effortless to perform that anyone can do them. Save yourself a bunch of letdowns and a trip to the Emergency Room and stay in your lane.

#6 Your hygiene game is off.

I cannot stress how important hygiene is. In sex, it's probably the most important thing you can do. Nobody wants to get it on with somebody who stinks. Do yourself a favor and wash your ass!

#7 You don't know how to please yourself.

Think about this for a second, if you can't please yourself what makes you think someone else can? You can't teach your partner the ins and outs of your body if you don't even know them yourself. Get to know yourself first. That will bring out the best sex of your life.

#8 You're too focused on reaching climax.

There is more to sex than just an orgasm. Take your time and enjoy the act. The beginning and middle can be just as exciting as the end. You won't realize that if you're only focused on getting to the end.

#9 You're self-centered.

Don't be selfish! Make sure that your partner is enjoying things just as much as you are. This goes back to communication. If things are not working for them then you need to change up your game and make sure you are pleasing just as much as you are getting pleased. It's only fair.

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