While he’s not bad in bed,
he's never been that into your body. In fact, he showcases very little enthusiasm about the female form altogether.
Unlike the other men you’ve been with,
he doesn't have a hunger for your touch. Simply put, he doesn't lust after you.
He regularly shuns things like kissing,
cuddling and holding hands. He can either be evading these things because he feels guilty about his secret or because he simply doesn't hold any interest in them.
Along with a decrease in intimacy,
there is a decrease in communication. You've noticed a sharp decline in his attempts to talk to you.
From cruel jokes about the LGBTQ community to anger towards gay men,
he exhibits an extremely homophobic attitude. Because he may not have yet accepted his sexuality, he could be lashing out in anger.
He’s had a makeover.
Over the past year or so, his appearance and clothes have changed dramatically.
He always makes you initiate things in the bedroom.
It's like he has sex with you to appease you, not because he wants to.
He’s never jealous.
Like, ever. Because he doesn't want you, he doesn't think any other man would.
He’s started showing interest in you using sex toys on him.
And, he only ever orgasms when he's having sex with you from behind.
You’ve started noticing a bunch of pop-up ads for gay adult films.
Although this sort of thing can happen accidentally, it is worth noting, as these only appear because ad trackers in the web browser note that gay adult film sites have been visited.
More noticeably, if your browsing history is full of gay adult film sites,
He promotes behaviors
that put a physical and emotional distance between the two of you, such as sleeping on the couch for no reason at all.
He gets very touchy with other men,
especially when he's drunk. While intoxicated, he's not subtle about his affection for the male form.
He spends an excessive amount of time with men,
which doesn't necessarily mean anythingexcept for the fact that he's shady and suspicious about it. He tries to hide how much he texts and talks on the phone with his guy friends.
A lot of the guys he spends time with
you don't know or he won't identify. He gets super defensive when you question him about this.
