Life is not a movie. Girls do not realize midway in their present relationship that there is a nice guy she knows and dumps the existing guy for him. They usually stay in the relationship in its own way and learn to love each other acknowledging all the parts the other person has.
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#1 One Who Constantly Messages Her
There is nothing wrong with the occasional ‘Hey’ but do make sure you don’t make it seem like you are available all the time. If you are someone who is constantly messaging her and asking her how her day went, she is definitely going to take you for granted. She’ll never message you first and will just assume that you will end up asking her how the day went.
#2 One Who Never Bothered Flirting
This is one of the most major but least noticed reasons for you getting friend zoned. If you never ever bothered telling her how you feel about her, how do you expect her to see you as anything else but a friend? Flirt a little bit with her, tell her she looks pretty and let her know that you look at her as more than a friend.
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#3 One Who Is Always There For Her To Cry On
Make sure that she knows that there are certain topics you are not interested in listening to, especially other guys. If she starts talking about some guy that she likes or anything that would move you from the ‘prospective boyfriend’ to ‘best girlfriend’ zone, STOP doing it.
#4 One Who Nerer Stands Up For Himself
She might never apologize for treating you badly and when she does so, if you let her get away with it, you are making yourself seem spineless in front of her. She will just assume that you’ll deal with anything she throws your way and that will keep you stuck in the zone.
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#5 One Who Is Trying To Please Her All The Time
Buying a gift for your friend on her birthday is a sweet thing to do. But always doing things for her that go beyond the normal norms of friendship is going to make sure you always remain a friend in her eyes. She is going to think that she is anyway getting all the benefits of a relationship without committing to anything and she won’t do anything to change the scenario.
So if there is a girl that you really like and want to get into a relationship with, try making some changes to the way that she sees you and if you’re very lucky, you’ll escape the zone.