What is your worst fear when on a date? Rejection. Yep, we’ve all been there, so we know it hurts. But you’ve never known rejections like these Men here. And let me tell you, these are by far the most brutal rejections there has ever been! Keep reading on to find out!
Here are 12 guys who share their most brutal rejections by a girl n Reddit!
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The most brutal rejections are the racist ones. By far the worst was at a bookstore once. I was there and saw this really cute girl browsing through a book that I’d read before (crap, don’t remember what it was). We’d made eye contact a couple of times earlier which I apparently totally misread. Earlier that day, I’d seen one of those popular images that go around, where a girl says “Just once I’d like a guy to offer to buy me a book instead of a drink.” So I thought I’d try it. I go up to her, say something like “That’s a fantastic book. You have very good taste. Mind if I buy you a book?” I don’t remember her exact response, but “fuck off” and “fucking chink” were both in it. Bitch.
-theothegot
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The most brutal rejections are the racist ones. By far the worst was at a bookstore once. I was there and saw this really cute girl browsing through a book that I’d read before (crap, don’t remember what it was). We’d made eye contact a couple of times earlier which I apparently totally misread. Earlier that day, I’d seen one of those popular images that go around, where a girl says “Just once I’d like a guy to offer to buy me a book instead of a drink.” So I thought I’d try it. I go up to her, say something like “That’s a fantastic book. You have very good taste. Mind if I buy you a book?” I don’t remember her exact response, but “fuck off” and “fucking chink” were both in it. Bitch.
-theothegot
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my “most brutal rejections” was in the sense that she was just using me. Met at work, hit it off, talked daily and would always go out together on lunch breaks. Little did i know she’d purposely “forget” her wallet. So basically I was used for food all the time. And anytime I’d ask her to go out on the weekend, she’d make up some bull shit excuse.
Took a little while to catch onto it.
–WhenAllElseFails
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I asked this person outright, they said that they were 80% sure that they wanted to go out with me but that she needed to make a decision. After some subtle hints that indicated I wanted an answer to the original question, she told me a year later that she had never had romantic feelings towards me. Fantastic.
-jaymeze
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I was on vacation visiting my cousins and crushing MAJORLY on one of his friends. It’s one of those “tight-knit group” situations, so I’d seen her 3-4 times before the night in question. I’m more than a couple of drinks in, and I’ve decided to put my best game on display. I’m chatting her up, thinking I’m brilliant and suave and captivating as fuck.
Until she says “could you take a few steps back please?” It was brutal and honest and amazing, but it hurt my pride.
–Crommunist
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Being stood up, because I am short.
The girl gave me her number, we worked in the same building so we would talk occasionally. Agreed to go out on a date, 50min after we were supposed to meet up I get a text saying “I can’t go on a date with a short guy”. I am sure Karma is getting her by now, but it’s just disgusting how some women choose to act.
-Znicked
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I’m not a guy and this didn’t happen to me but it seems relevant. One friend of mine asked a girl out to prom with a big gesture on the hallway of all the rooms of our batch. He sang, which he sucked in, and gave a beautiful bouquet after. He then knelt down and put the all mighty PROM WITH ME sign up and we were all there to cheer him on. This was a full corridor of students, more than a hundred for sure as our batch is around 300. After all of that, she says no. As a crowd, we don’t stand for this and push him to ask her again. This time he’s begging. She looks at all of us and looks like she’ll say yes but the last min. Says no and shakes her head then just goes. I felt so bad for him.
–Moscadilia
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My worst was in fourth grade.
I had been talking to this girl in my class for at least half the school season, and she seemed really nice, and I thought she was kind of pretty. So, naturally, I thought it would be easy to ask her to be my girlfriend, during class nonetheless.
Ha, yeah right. She instantly started laughing and being very loud about the rejection. The entire class knew at that point that I had asked, and I was basically the huge embarrassment of the day.
To make matters worse, for the rest of the year, she would make fun of me with her friends. Valentine’s Day really sucked for me that year.
-planet-void
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I had never been to the prom or any kind of school dance before (I was always a shy loner). I asked out a crush and she said yes, which was AWESOME. Then about two days before prom, she got “sick” and couldn’t go but encouraged me to go on my own. Instead, I went to Blockbuster (this was ’06), picked up some movies and popcorn and showed up to her house…only to find out that she actually was attending another school’s prom.
It wasn’t a direct rejection, but it’s the one that’s stuck with me the longest.
-kavkaz94
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One of the most brutal rejections. Walked up to a girl standing alone at a party, didn’t really know a lot of the people there and she was cute so I thought I’d try to have a casual conversation. “Are you here by yourself too?” – no. Without so much as glancing at me, she just walks away and leaves me looking like a complete fool. It hurt, but hey… you get over it. sobs
–nigelbitarn
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My most brutal rejections, Well I went up to a party for NY’s in high school, we must have been 17 at the time, and our friend had her parent’s house to herself so like 20 or 30 of us from our class went up. I liked this girl for a long time, we’ll call her Julia.
We hung out a lot, she knew I liked her and was ever so slowly warming up to me. But, I was so nice and so consistent she took me for granted. So this was like, my first time drinking (well, like the 3rd time, I knew nothing about pacing) and I chugged 3.5 Smirnoff ices. I then took a hit of weed and things began to spin.
I went to my car to relax, and my buddy came out to the car with me. As we’re sitting in my car, we could see into the garage which was well lit. I see Julia come up, and this guy that I always disliked named Joey. Well, they begin furiously making out and he starts playing with her vagina and pushes her up against a wall, she clearly was enjoying this.
He was on his way out so he left after a couple minutes of this, but he had way more swagger and confidence than I did at 17 so he totally got her. My buddy was about to hop out of the car and break it up because he could see the pain in my eyes, but I stopped him and told him that it wasn’t fair, I didn’t own her, she was entitled to do what she wanted to do. But this was one of the most brutal rejections.
-Rapn3rd
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When I was 15 there was a girl I had a crush on who worked at Dairy Queen near my house. I would go in and buy Blizzards every week just to see her but never made any attempt to ask her out because I was shy. She knew I had a crush on her, most likely because I couldn’t stop blushing when I would go in.
Fast forward a year, him and I are drinking at a party. Suddenly the door opens and a girl walks in. It’s the girl from Dairy Queen. We all get to talking and drinks are being had, flirting is going on. I ask her if she wants to come to the bedroom to “hang out”. My friend overhears this and chimes in: “or would you like to come with ME to the bedroom to hang out?”
She stands up, looks at the two of us and walks over to my friend, takes his hand and leads him to the bedroom.
I can’t even begin to describe how low my heart sunk that day. Most brutal rejections of my life.
–Chroncraft
