Things Men Think About Women But Never Say
By
Sughra Hafeez in
Life Style
On 20th September 2016
Women have long been guessing what men are really thinking. It’s hard to figure it out, no matter how many times we try to solve the age old mystery with the aid of magazines, and romance novels.
We’ve come up with weird ideas to try and figure out what men are thinking about. When we were children we thought that if a boy was mean to us it meant he liked us, and now we think if a man’s feet are pointed at a certain angle then he must hate us. It’s so confusing. We wish we had a manual to figure the whole thing out!
#1 Mind of a man
Men are just as complex as women, and they can struggle to communicate their thoughts and feelings at times. It may be based on the fear of rejection, a fear of compromising their ‘masculine image', but they're still a secretive gender.
In order to finally understand the mind of a man, you should read these thirteen things men think, but will never tell you.
#2 Order Dessert.
When you're on a date with a guy the last thing you want is to look like a pig. So that's why we push about at our boring salad and skip desert. Pretending to be a dainty feather, isn't sexy. How can a man get to know the real you if you won't even let him see you go crazy over a hot fudge brownie sundae? You shouldn't hire your passion, let go and have fun.
#3 Make The First Move, Or At Least Give Them The Confidence To Do It Themselves
I know it sounds scary but making the first move can be a good thing. It shows your confident and brave to try new things. Confidence is a sexy look. If you don't want to make the first move, then just show your man you're ready for the next step. No matter who you are, or how big and tough you are, a fear of rejection is something we all suffer from.
#4 Be The Boss In The Bedroom
Take control sometimes. It's nice to be in that situation occasionally, and you might enjoy it. Tell him what will make you happy, give him direction. Sometimes that's what men want and need.
#5 Realise Just How Beautiful You Are
You don't need a man to tell you that you're pretty. I know it's sometimes nice but most men just want you to see what they see, a beautiful, and strong woman. Trust me, you're absolutely stunning.
#6 Elegance Always Wins Over A Skimpy Dress
An elegant dress will always win over the right kind of man. It shows them that you're grown up, and plays to their idea of the woman they want to marry and start a family with one day.An elegant and stylish dress will win your way into his heart better than any skimpy dress will. Just like us when we imagine Channing Tatum in a tuxedo. See, I told you men and women were very familiar.
#7 Give Him A Compliment
While many women expect compliments from their partners, they often forget that their partner deserve a compliment too. Just a squeeze of his bicep of a quick mention of how great he looks will make him feel special.
#8 Know How To Order A Drink
Certainty is key. You sound more confident and sexy when you know what you want. ‘Vodka on the rocks with a slice of lime' sounds much better than ‘urm.vodka and..urm, coke?' It's not about what you think he wants you to say, it's about what you want. As soon as you remember that you'll sound more certain and confident.
#9 They Like A Chase, But Don’t Make It Impossible
If you like him back don't make it hard for him to catch you. A little fun is fine, but if the chase is too much then they'll most likely give up.
#10 Be Confident, Looks Don’t Matter As Much As You Think
Confidence is key. According to Glamour Magazine 78% of men would rather date a confident plus-size woman than an insecure supermodel. While it's true most man want to be with a beautiful woman, they'd rather have someone who was happy, then an absolute train wreck with a pretty face.
#11 You’re Probably Attracted To Him, Or So They Think
According to American Academy of Sleep Medicine, as men become tired they begin to overestimate a woman's sexual interest in him. That explains why men become overbearing and overconfident. It's just strange brain chemistry.
#12 Going Natural Implies Trust
Wearing no makeup around your partner can be scary. But it's actually a big sign that you trust him. You're showing him the real you, not the person you create each day for the whole world. In those moments where you're wearing nothing on your face, you're showing him confidence and the real you. It's rather sexy.
#13 You Don’t Have To Watch ‘The Game’, Drink Beer, Or Play Video Games
If it's something you don't like or aren't interested in then don't do it. As much as they'll love you trying to join in, they'd prefer it if you joined in because you wanted to.
#14 Don’t Play A Type
You don't have to be the girl next door, or some fem fatale. Just be yourself, and forget about trying to be someone you're not because you think it will please your partner. You're perfect as you are, and they just want you to be yourself.
