Just when you're feeling all secure and settled in a relationship, your woman ends up doing things, either on purpose or unintentionally, that drive you crazy and jealous in love. If you try to probe, you'll find numerous reasons behind it — from wanting you to chase them or just kickstart some action into the relationship. While most of these moves are attention-grabbing and completely harmless; a note of casual fun underlines it. It helps if you're on guard when your woman is upto some mischief, this will help you play along with her which will enhance your relationship in a positive way. Here's what you should watch out for...
#1 Smell nice.
You shouldn't smell like you stole your mother's perfume, but if you want to wear just a touch of perfume or some scented body lotion, then it'll catch a guy's eye for sure, if that's your thing. Taking the time to brush your teeth and shower regularly and keeping your body and hair smelling nice will also do the trick.
#2 Be good at something.
If you're good at something, whether it's singing, dancing, painting, or soccer, if you work really hard to succeed in it, then the guy will take notice. You shouldn't be good at it just to show off, but because you love it and it makes you feel good. If you're truly passionate about something, then the guy will admire you for it, and will like the fact that you're a complicated person with a lot of different interests.
If you want a guy to notice you, then he has to think that you have other interests besides pursuing guys. This will intrigue him even more.
#3 Be a fun girl.
Guys are always attracted to girls who are the life of the party. When you’re hanging out with your own friends, have fun with them. When he sees that you’re a hot girl who also has a lot of fun, there’s little reason for him to overlook you.
#4 Be confident.
Guys love girls who are comfortable with who they are and know that they have a lot to offer. Guys don't want girls who are high maintenance or who get all their self esteem from guys because that's just too much for them to handle. If you want to get a boy's attention, then you have to be happy with who you are first. This is the real way to make a guy notice you. If he sees you and thinks, "Hey, that girl seems really happy with who she is," then he'll be much more likely to want to join you.
Don't be overconfident. It's annoying when you brag a lot and showoff, it is unlikely for a boy to approach a girl who is a smart-alec no matter how pretty she might be.
This doesn't mean that you have to try too hard to make the guy see that you're happy with who you are. Just keep things natural and he'll have a sense of how things are. If you try too much to laugh or look happy around him, he may think that you're showing off.
#5 Look good and dress well.
We don’t need to repeat this, but men are completely visual when it comes to attraction at first sight. They love women in heels and women who dress in a manner that makes a guy’s jaw drop. Try it, but don’t be vulgar.
#6 Keep your look natural.
If you're not into makeup, then you don't have to pile it on your face to make a guy notice you. And that goes for hair, clothes, nails, and everything else. While putting some effort into your appearance shows that you do take some pride in your looks and in who you are, you have to remember to be true to yourself. If you're working too hard on your appearance, a guy may notice you, but not for the right reasons.
If you like dressing up and wearing mascara, lipgloss, and other make-up, then do your thing!
#7 Give off positive energy.
When a guy sees you, you should be smiling, looking happy, and generally giving off a good vibe. This will make you look more approachable and will make a guy more likely to come up to you. If you want the guy to really want to spend more time with you, then you should keep things light and upbeat, laugh, and give off an energy that says, "I'm having a great time and I want you to join me." Don't try to look upset or sad just so a guy will ask you what's wrong; that's not the best way to go about it.
#8 Showing interest in other men
Well, this might be as simple as laughing at some other guy's joke and if it is really that funny, just laugh it out with her instead of bringing out the daggers. If her intention was to drive you nuts, it will be unsuccessful as it will be she who will be impressed with your sense of humour.
#9 Open display of emotions
Laughing a lot with guy friends when in a group, playing along with their jokes and generally, being familiar with guys she is close to, is just her way of teasing you. Remember, posing for a group selfie or hugging a guy friend warmly, does not mean your girl has serious intentions about him. She may look like she is flirting with other guys, but it might be that she is just extra friendly and demonstrative in expressing her feelings.
#10 Play hard to get.
Once you drop a few hints to let him know that you like him, start playing hard to get to make him instinctively chase you. Give him a chance to see how desirable you are and he may do all he can to win your attention back.
#11 Straight posture says it all
The very first thing a guy notices almost the very instant he sees you walking by, is your posture. He will or will note take not of you depending on whether you are slouching and dragging your feet or holding your back straight with a firm step. When talking to people, do not be afraid to look them in the eye. No need to stare too long, but avoiding eye contact completely gives off the impression of insecurity, even fearfulness. Keep your shoulders back, your chin up, and your walk firm. Your body language sends a message about you, and according to that message he will either perceive you as a confident, self-aware, and positive person, or as insecure, self-conscious and uninteresting. This brings me to my next point…
#12 Conversation skills
Although shyness is not really a bad trait, it is one that makes you a bit more passive. If you are seeking to catch a guy's attention, you need to be active about it. In a number of subtle ways, of course. In a social situation with your "target", do not be afraid to speak your mind, and when you do so, make sure he reads you loud and clear. If you are too quiet, he might not even hear you, or not take notice of your words. You even may end up looking as if you're mumbling to yourself, and that funny joke you wanted him to hear is now wasted. Just be careful not to overdo it, speaking too loudly may come across as obtrusive, or just plain awkward.
Other than how you speak, you should take notice of what you are saying. Mind your vocabulary and always be assertive. Avoid any vulgarity, cussing, or being offensive to anyone or anything. If you want to state a negative opinion on something, be polite about it, and it's probably a good idea to use a euphemism. Make sure that you can always back your opinion and explain it if asked. It is always best to speak about things you know, and the confidence and ease will flow freely. This will only serve to make you look intelligent and sophisticated. The same can be useful for online communication as well.
#13 Tying Your Hair Into A Ponytail
Hair has long been a symbol of power and beauty. And women have been using their hair for just as long to catch a guys attention in various ways. We spend so much money and time on cutting it, styling it, coloring it, and making sure it is healthy because we know how important hair is to our overall look. As we have mentioned, though, guys are basically simple creatures, and it does not take a lot of effort to catch their attention, especially when it comes using a simple ponytail. And for whatever reason, guys love ponytails, and they especially love watching you tie your hair up into one. When they watch you lift it all up off your shoulders, exposing your neck and profile, and run your fingers through it while you try to tame it all into a hair tie just makes them think about running their fingers through you hair, too.
#14 Putting Lotion On
Lotion already has a lot of intimate and sensual implications. It makes people think of skin on skin contact, smooth and soft things, and massages. All that stuff is pretty hot! Lotion commercials are some of the hottest ones on TV, and honestly you really don’t have to try and make them hot, they just naturally are. Watching an attractive woman lather lotion on and rub it into her skin? It just makes guys think about how good her skin probably feels now and how badly he would like to be the one putting lotion all over her and lathering it in. If you are wondering how practical this move actually is in real life, it just needs the right setting like a pool or beach. If you want to catch a cuties eye, lather that lotion on girl! The slower the better. If it has a nice sensual scent, that’s a bonus.
#15 When You Laugh Without Any Inhibitions
Laughter is contagious! People like to be around happy people, and one of the best signals of happiness is loud boisterous laughter. When you laugh loudly from the heart and flash a genuine smile, you can bet your man and/or guys around you are noticing it, and it instantly draws them to you. Especially if you are the kind of person that laughs often, it shows you have a fun loving and joyful spirit that is irresistible to be around. Never ever try and force a laugh because fake laughs are incredibly obvious. Everyone can tell the difference between a real and fake laugh. Let everything happen organically, and it will have a much more positive impact. Being natural and yourself is always the best route.
#16 Biting Your Lip
This is a powerful move, and it has to be executed properly if it is something you are consciously doing to get a guy’s attention. It is one of the actions on this list that holds its power in the fact that girls do it subconsciously without realizing how hot it makes them look. This doesn’t mean that you can’t pull it off in a way to make a guy lose his mind over you with intent, just make sure, again, you are not trying too hard. Why is biting your lip so hot? That’s not really clear, but it’s safe to say that it works on both genders. Perhaps it is a little sign that you have a hidden naughty side. Hopefully this move leads you from biting your own lip to his…
