Things Women Do When Cheating

#1 She Nags You A Lot

Sometimes, a cheating lover will displace his or her shame, anger, and guilt onto you by starting a fight, which can then be blamed on you. In short, they need a place to throw off their negative feelings. If she begins nagging and picking arguments over the smallest things, she may have something else on her mind. If she points out every little thing you've done wrong, then she may be doing it to feel better about acting badly.

#2 She Wants To Know Your Schedule

She suddenly is taking a big interest in your entire schedule and daily routine. You may think that this is a sign that she really cares about you and just wants to keep you in check, but it could be her way of making sure you don't catch her cheating. If she asks you to be clear about when you're getting home and even texts you asking, she may not be eagerly waiting for your arrival. She could also be asking to make sure that you won't be coming home while she is having her romantic rendezvous.

#3 Her Schedule Becomes Shady

Is she coming home from work later than usual on some nights or leaving at unusual times of the day? Sometimes these small changes to a person's routine mean nothing more than life has given them a reason to be unavailable, but they are still something that you want to be aware of. If she's suddenly slammed at work, and spending a lot more time with friends, and spending a lot more time at the gym, then this may be a sign that another man is really eating up her time.

#4 She Is Pre-Occupied

When someone spends enough time with someone else, they begin to adopt their views, or at least understand them. If your girlfriend is interested in things that she hated before, perhaps she is being influenced by someone else more than usual. And if she begins to lose interest in the things she once found fun and interesting, then she may have major issues on her mind that are making her seem distant, like a secret lover.

#5 She’s Secretive About Her Phone

Always a tell tale sign. If your wife or girlfriend is hiding their phone from you, or deleting all their messages before letting you have it, then there is something they don't want you to see. This is a pretty good sign of cheating. If you ask whom called or texted them, do they always tell you "It's nobody?" These are also important signals, which show that your maybe she has something to hide.

#6 She Withdraws From Sex

She used to hot in bed, but now she's cold as ice. If she's getting some love somewhere else, then she may feel guilty, or just plain not interested, in sleeping with you. Maybe she let that small argument spill over into the bedroom? If you previously had a pretty good sex routine going, and now she's been "too tired" or "not feeling well" the last dozen times you tried to make something happen, it could be a sign that she's getting satisfied from someone else.

#7 She Becomes Secretive About Her Belongings

If she gets super upset and angry when you rifle through her packages or purse, and never did previously, then she has something else going on. Maybe she doesn't want you to find that lunch receipt for two, or that hotel receipt, or that scribbled phone number on a napkin. She is probably cheating.

#8 She Doesn't Communicate

Did your significant other always have things to say, and has suddenly become distant? Your relationship may be losing intimacy because your lover has started a new one with someone else. If she stops chatting or carrying on about the little things she has done with her time, she may have a secret or two she doesn't want to slip out.

#9 She Claims She’s Spending Time With A New Friend

Has a new coworker or classmate's name come up once or twice recently? Has it come up -- a lot? If she is spending time with someone you never heard of until recently, it's time to worry. This may be the mystery man you're afraid of. Try asking some basic questions about this person. If she blushes or gets defensive, it may be because she doesn't want you to know anything about the man she's seeing on the side.

#10 She Takes More Interest In Her Appearance

If your girlfriend's wardrobe has suddenly tripled over the last two months, but you've barely been out on a date, then she may dressing up for someone other than you. It could be a coworker, a classmate, or just about anyone else in her life. And if she's suddenly putting a lot more time into her hair and makeup when she says she's just headed to the grocery store or to grab coffee with a friend, then something may be up.